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If she apologizes

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Don Juan
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What do you do if you bust a woman on her behavior and she accepts it and apologizes?

She usually defends it so I was a bit taken aback and not sure how to handle it.
 

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CaptainJ

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Bask in your victory.
 

danron

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That's good if she accepts and apologises.

Give her a kiss, hold her. Reward her for good behaviour in dog training terms lol

That should be a good thing when you bust her on negative behaviour and she apologises, as long as she doesn't repeat the behaviour.
 

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Reward her, but make sure the reward is proportional to the good behaviour.
It's called positive reinforcement, and it can work wonders!
 
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