"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If she apologizes

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What do you do if you bust a woman on her behavior and she accepts it and apologizes?

She usually defends it so I was a bit taken aback and not sure how to handle it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CaptainJ

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Bask in your victory.
 

danron

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That's good if she accepts and apologises.

Give her a kiss, hold her. Reward her for good behaviour in dog training terms lol

That should be a good thing when you bust her on negative behaviour and she apologises, as long as she doesn't repeat the behaviour.
 

Farmboy

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Reward her, but make sure the reward is proportional to the good behaviour.
It's called positive reinforcement, and it can work wonders!
 
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