"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If she apologizes

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What do you do if you bust a woman on her behavior and she accepts it and apologizes?

She usually defends it so I was a bit taken aback and not sure how to handle it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bask in your victory.
 
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That's good if she accepts and apologises.

Give her a kiss, hold her. Reward her for good behaviour in dog training terms lol

That should be a good thing when you bust her on negative behaviour and she apologises, as long as she doesn't repeat the behaviour.
 
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Reward her, but make sure the reward is proportional to the good behaviour.
It's called positive reinforcement, and it can work wonders!
 
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