"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If "out of sight" is "out of mind" for a BPD

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Ahh dang!

Now I see the light!

The girl that messed me pretty hard 7 weeks ago must be a definitely BPD! Luckily that I didnt slept with her (She offered by strong IOIs). That could made me attached to her pretty bad. I was AFCish back that time.

Since then I know she slept with other 2 guys that I know but I think its higher than that. And I believe she dumps them after she finishes her job...

I dont see her too much also. She is kinda shady and when I see her she is always with the same girl or random group of guys... She acts like a man BTW.

Thanks God! I managed to got out in time!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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