I can relate,
I dont know if she's BPD but , she always got things free , she was selfish, she was manipulate things so it will suite her . she dind't say she loves me , was emotionally unavailable , always saying bad things happen to her , she dosent have a lot of female friends , talk to other guys to get attention and validation .
Liar , thinks she can fool people . talked to another dude from another country , told him she loves him , wants him to bang her... horny for him. and its only 2 weeks since they talked. she only saw his face on facebook and talked to him on viber.
on the same process she cut her attachment to me and started attach to him... started with the excuses , i don't know , i need space and keep the lies.
contacted me just because i could fix her computer , she was nice but after that came back to the cold shoulder- i was stupid.
Would i think if she will come back? i hope no , i don't thinks so. she has her poor schmuk from holland to fill her attention .
Any ideas?
Joe.