If "out of sight" is "out of mind" for a BPD

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don Juan

Dec 2, 2014

Ahh dang!

Now I see the light!

The girl that messed me pretty hard 7 weeks ago must be a definitely BPD! Luckily that I didnt slept with her (She offered by strong IOIs). That could made me attached to her pretty bad. I was AFCish back that time.

Since then I know she slept with other 2 guys that I know but I think its higher than that. And I believe she dumps them after she finishes her job...

I dont see her too much also. She is kinda shady and when I see her she is always with the same girl or random group of guys... She acts like a man BTW.

Thanks God! I managed to got out in time!

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.