Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
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please explain pua experts
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Science and art are the same thing. Newton wrote Calculus the way Paul McCartney wrote Hey Jude. They were expressing their vision.Because musicians are artists and artists are weirdos.
I don't understand some people's fascination with art. I'm more of a science and technology guy.
Newton didn't "write" calculus. He discovered it's laws. Calculus existed before Newton existed, but it had yet to be discovered.Science and art are the same thing. Newton wrote Calculus the way Paul McCartney wrote Hey Jude. They were expressing their vision.
McCartney said he didn't write Hey Jude, he just interpreted that energy that was emanating at that time.Newton didn't "write" calculus. He discovered it's laws. Calculus existed before Newton existed, but it had yet to be discovered.
Calculus existed before human beings existed. As did chemistry, quantum physics, etc.
Math and science and things that were discovered.
Technology is the application of these things into useful inventions such as the steam engine or machine gun.
That's how I feel about music. I tap into something that already exists rather than create. All answers and possibilities already exist. They're just waiting for the right questions.McCartney said he didn't write Hey Jude, he just interpreted that energy that was emanating at that time.
Music and harmony existed before human beings.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I disagree with this.Looks and money are not "king". These things won't hurt you obviously, but if you depend on them to attract women, those are exactly the type of women you will attract. Women who only care about money. Shallow women who only care about looks.
You already have your answer on the music.
So how can you blame a girl for being shallow if you are shallow also?Agree or disagree with whatever you want to, brother. It's your life. So long as you're happy.
Yeah. Probably.
They aren't ignoring it. They just can't use it to buy designer purses, shoes and vacations.
One time I talked to his gf on FaceBook and she was ugly af.A Well known, handsome, multi talented musician and dancer like Chris Brown isnt directly a DJ. His net worth is about 40 million usd and he is desperate af. Got a restriction to contact ex's, beats his gf and drunk drives to his ex's to yell in front of her house or begg her back. (Karuche Tran)
Money, looks and talent doesnt make a DJ.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No, tons of musicians come out saying they wrote garbage songs they didn't believe in.These claims that they are faking are a load of bs. Even salesmen have to generally like and believe in the product they are selling. Same as musicians! please provide another reason because that's a load of booty.
This, you make money for you... not for the poosay. If you feel you need to have money to get and keep b1tches. Well your already a trick.Like I said, if that's what you're depending on, those are the type of women you will attract. That doesn't mean you shouldn't strive to live a comfortable life.
Incorrect, those are just labels. Everything just isNewton didn't "write" calculus. He discovered it's laws. Calculus existed before Newton existed, but it had yet to be discovered.
Calculus existed before human beings existed. As did chemistry, quantum physics, etc.
Math and science and things that were discovered.
Technology is the application of these things into useful inventions such as the steam engine or machine gun.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.