Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
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please explain pua experts
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Science and art are the same thing. Newton wrote Calculus the way Paul McCartney wrote Hey Jude. They were expressing their vision.Because musicians are artists and artists are weirdos.
I don't understand some people's fascination with art. I'm more of a science and technology guy.
Newton didn't "write" calculus. He discovered it's laws. Calculus existed before Newton existed, but it had yet to be discovered.Science and art are the same thing. Newton wrote Calculus the way Paul McCartney wrote Hey Jude. They were expressing their vision.
McCartney said he didn't write Hey Jude, he just interpreted that energy that was emanating at that time.Newton didn't "write" calculus. He discovered it's laws. Calculus existed before Newton existed, but it had yet to be discovered.
Calculus existed before human beings existed. As did chemistry, quantum physics, etc.
Math and science and things that were discovered.
Technology is the application of these things into useful inventions such as the steam engine or machine gun.
That's how I feel about music. I tap into something that already exists rather than create. All answers and possibilities already exist. They're just waiting for the right questions.McCartney said he didn't write Hey Jude, he just interpreted that energy that was emanating at that time.
Music and harmony existed before human beings.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I disagree with this.Looks and money are not "king". These things won't hurt you obviously, but if you depend on them to attract women, those are exactly the type of women you will attract. Women who only care about money. Shallow women who only care about looks.
You already have your answer on the music.
So how can you blame a girl for being shallow if you are shallow also?Agree or disagree with whatever you want to, brother. It's your life. So long as you're happy.
Yeah. Probably.
They aren't ignoring it. They just can't use it to buy designer purses, shoes and vacations.
One time I talked to his gf on FaceBook and she was ugly af.A Well known, handsome, multi talented musician and dancer like Chris Brown isnt directly a DJ. His net worth is about 40 million usd and he is desperate af. Got a restriction to contact ex's, beats his gf and drunk drives to his ex's to yell in front of her house or begg her back. (Karuche Tran)
Money, looks and talent doesnt make a DJ.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No, tons of musicians come out saying they wrote garbage songs they didn't believe in.These claims that they are faking are a load of bs. Even salesmen have to generally like and believe in the product they are selling. Same as musicians! please provide another reason because that's a load of booty.
This, you make money for you... not for the poosay. If you feel you need to have money to get and keep b1tches. Well your already a trick.Like I said, if that's what you're depending on, those are the type of women you will attract. That doesn't mean you shouldn't strive to live a comfortable life.
Incorrect, those are just labels. Everything just isNewton didn't "write" calculus. He discovered it's laws. Calculus existed before Newton existed, but it had yet to be discovered.
Calculus existed before human beings existed. As did chemistry, quantum physics, etc.
Math and science and things that were discovered.
Technology is the application of these things into useful inventions such as the steam engine or machine gun.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.