Trainwreck
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please explain pua experts
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If money and looks are king then why do musician write so many oneitis songs
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Their songs play to the Disney fairytale fantasy about love that so many people still believe in. In this day and time they are merchants selling a desireable product to the masses, and they make money doing so. That's all it is. Try to recognize reality.
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We all feel heartache, whether we are stars or not.
Nothing motivates a person more. For nearly every great song, there existed some beautiful woman who brought some man great joy and proportionally great sadness. When a woman inspires a man to create an immortal form of art in her memory, appreciate her. Consider that sound waves and images shine off into space and will survive long after the Earth.
Nothing motivates a person more. For nearly every great song, there existed some beautiful woman who brought some man great joy and proportionally great sadness. When a woman inspires a man to create an immortal form of art in her memory, appreciate her. Consider that sound waves and images shine off into space and will survive long after the Earth.
RichardTheFrog
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Because musicians are artists and artists are weirdos.
I don't understand some people's fascination with art. I'm more of a science and technology guy.
I don't understand some people's fascination with art. I'm more of a science and technology guy.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Puas are out, went to the club to nail sluts...
Explain what?
Explain what?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Science and art are the same thing. Newton wrote Calculus the way Paul McCartney wrote Hey Jude. They were expressing their vision.
RichardTheFrog
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Newton didn't "write" calculus. He discovered it's laws. Calculus existed before Newton existed, but it had yet to be discovered.
Calculus existed before human beings existed. As did chemistry, quantum physics, etc.
Math and science and things that were discovered.
Technology is the application of these things into useful inventions such as the steam engine or machine gun.
McCartney said he didn't write Hey Jude, he just interpreted that energy that was emanating at that time.
Music and harmony existed before human beings.
Thorninmyside
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That's how I feel about music. I tap into something that already exists rather than create. All answers and possibilities already exist. They're just waiting for the right questions.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RichardTheFrog
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I disagree with this.
Are you "shallow" for liking attractive women instead of obese ones?
Why do people always ignore the intelligence it takes to make money? It's not like it fell out of the sky. And they always assume that a guy with money will just stupidly spend it on any girl who talks to him.
RichardTheFrog
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So how can you blame a girl for being shallow if you are shallow also?
When I was asking why people ignore the intelligence it takes to make money... I was referring to the guys on this forum who claim that money doesn't matter. They act like it just fell out of the sky and that a person who worked hard/smart to get money has no more value than some loser who sits home and smokes pot all day.
TheGambino
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A Well known, handsome, multi talented musician and dancer like Chris Brown isnt directly a DJ. His net worth is about 40 million usd and he is desperate af. Got a restriction to contact ex's, beats his gf and drunk drives to his ex's to yell in front of her house or begg her back. (Karuche Tran)
Money, looks and talent doesnt make a DJ.
Money, looks and talent doesnt make a DJ.
RichardTheFrog
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One time I talked to his gf on FaceBook and she was ugly af.
Also, one time I saw 50 Cent at a bottle signing thing and his gf was also hideous and fat.
And look at someone like Eminem... I don't even think he likes girls.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Trainwreck
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These claims that they are faking are a load of bs. Even salesmen have to generally like and believe in the product they are selling. Same as musicians! please provide another reason because that's a load of booty.
Murk
Master Don Juan
No, tons of musicians come out saying they wrote garbage songs they didn't believe in.
Sometimes they write songs that are true or based on real experiences that are embellished to make them more interesting or appealing, and other times they don't. Simple.
PeasantPlayer
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Incorrect, those are just labels. Everything just is
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.