if in doubt... go with the flow

[wifehunter]

so this shy mexican chica i've been seeing has been dropping hints... later, I go to approach her and she clams up, (she's super shy) could be a stessed day at work. Didn't hang around long enough to know for sure.

Anyway, got to thinking... if something feels a bit off, (whether it's me or her or both) it's best to leave it for another day. My mojo wasn't at top level anyway (long day) and I had been thinking about her too much.

Any opinions???

 

[NSX-R]

so this shy mexican chica i've been seeing has been dropping hints... later, I go to approach her and she clams up, (she's super shy) could be a stessed day at work. Didn't hang around long enough to know for sure.

Anyway, got to thinking... if something feels a bit off, (whether it's me or her or both) it's best to leave it for another day. My mojo wasn't at top level anyway (long day) and I had been thinking about her too much.

Any opinions???

Follow standard procedure. The more you think about it, the higher the chance to make a mistake. Focus somewhere else and you will be fine.
And spin more plates.

 

[Lozboss]

Take a break and see if she pursues you

If you have been thinking a lot about her then it's time to take a break. Remain objective and outcome independent.

 

[Reykhel]

so this shy mexican chica i've been seeing has been dropping hints... later, I go to approach her and she clams up, (she's super shy) could be a stessed day at work. Didn't hang around long enough to know for sure.

Anyway, got to thinking... if something feels a bit off, (whether it's me or her or both) it's best to leave it for another day. My mojo wasn't at top level anyway (long day) and I had been thinking about her too much.

Any opinions???

Assume attraction.

The minute you start thinking "something feels a bit off" that's the vibe that comes off you and that's the vibe she picks up on....

In other words your poor subcommunications start pouring out of you like olive oil ......

Stop rationlising her behaviour (could be stressed at work). In fact, if she is "shy" it's the perfect scenario to apply the FATHER DAUGHTER FRAME.....

If she's claming up when your closing in......could be just some LMR.......back off and move in again after a bit.....

Hesitation and doubt are going to kill you.

Your post isn't that clear............this mexican chica that I've been seeing (I assume you've being banging or at least going out with when you say that....so I assume there is interest) has been dropping hints.....(about what?)

 

[wifehunter]

Take a break and see if she pursues you

If you have been thinking a lot about her then it's time to take a break. Remain objective and outcome independent.

the thinking bit is the problem, working on fixing it!!!

 

[wifehunter]

Assume attraction.

The minute you start thinking "something feels a bit off" that's the vibe that comes off you and that's the vibe she picks up on....

In other words your poor subcommunications start pouring out of you like olive oil ......

Stop rationlising her behaviour (could be stressed at work). In fact, if she is "shy" it's the perfect scenario to apply the FATHER DAUGHTER FRAME.....

If she's claming up when your closing in......could be just some LMR.......back off and move in again after a bit.....

Hesitation and doubt are going to kill you.

Your post isn't that clear............this mexican chica that I've been seeing (I assume you've being banging or at least going out with when you say that....so I assume there is interest) has been dropping hints.....(about what?)

Going to lay low for now, thanks!!!

 

[ERB]

LMR? I have seen this twice and can't put my finger on its meaning.

 

[wifehunter]

LMR? I have seen this twice and can't put my finger on its meaning.

not sure, either.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Last minute resistance

 

[wifehunter]

Last minute resistance

Thanks, makes sense now!