"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If I don't get stiff from self hand stimulation at age 20 is this a possible medical issue?

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There is no amount of "avoidance" that can counter the fact they genetically are producing less testosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less testosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less tesosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less testosterone than the generation before them. It's an environmental issue, it's a genetic issue that is being passed down from the mother to children, and it's an epidemic that nobody wants to talk about.

If the average person in 1950 was starting at 100, the average person today is probably somewhere at 50, each generation has degraded downward...nothing they can do when they are starting at 2/3 or half of what somebody born in 1950 was starting with. Yes, "avoiding" things might help them go from 30 to 48, but they still have a maximum of 50...that's not helping them get back to 100...it's sadly not possible for many these days, and it's not right.
Some men today have adequate testosterone. Diet can improve it, trust me. We're not born with it like eggs. We produce it in our testicles.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some men today have adequate testosterone. Diet can improve it, trust me. We're not born with it like eggs. We produce it in our testicles.
Some do of course, but on average the levels have been dropping since 1950 and will continue to drop. Yes, diet and exercise can improve it, but only to a certain point.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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