"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If I don't get stiff from self hand stimulation at age 20 is this a possible medical issue?

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A few people have told me that it's bad. Can't get stiff from stroking and self stimulation.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You need to expand your collection of p0rn. There's going to be something out there that will get you going.
 

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Dude your 20 years old, you should get off just by looking at a Sears catalogue. There is definately something wrong. Get your blood tested and make sure your testosterone is in line.
 

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You need to expand your collection of p0rn. There's going to be something out there that will get you going.
Sadly not true anymore...the amount of 20 year olds with low testosterone these days is staggering...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Avoid tofu. Avoid microwaving. Avoid plastics. Avoid artificial colors and flavors. Avoid MSG and Aspartame.
Take real, Korean Ginseng (it's a sap, like Molasses).
Try fasting.
No more pharmaceuticals.
Look at pictures of my girlfriend.







 

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OP has been looking at too much porn.
 

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Avoid tofu. Avoid microwaving. Avoid plastics. Avoid artificial colors and flavors. Avoid MSG and Aspartame.
Take real, Korean Ginseng (it's a sap, like Molasses).
Try fasting.
No more pharmaceuticals.
Look at pictures of my girlfriend.
Would you say it's a serious problem if I'm unable to get stiff from hand stimulation?
 

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Are you saying you've never had an erection?
I have before, not recently at all. Ppl have told me within minutes of hand contact it should trigger an erection at my age and that doesn't happen. They've told me that's a problem
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have before, not recently at all. Ppl have told me within minutes of hand contact it should trigger an erection at my age and that doesn't happen. They've told me that's a problem
That's not true. I get stage fright with every new girl and can't perform all that well until about the 4th time we're together.

You should be able to get turned on somehow.

It's all in your (big) head. You might have a mental block. You need to find some regular way to get turned on. Use it or lose it.
 

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Too much porn. Over stimulation. Quit cold turkey.

If this is not the case quit posting on forums and goto the doc
 

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That's not true. I get stage fright with every new girl and can't perform all that well until about the 4th time we're together.

You should be able to get turned on somehow.

It's all in your (big) head. You might have a mental block. You need to find some regular way to get turned on. Use it or lose it.
Is use it or lose it actually true? Lol
 

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That's not true. I get stage fright with every new girl and can't perform all that well until about the 4th time we're together.

You should be able to get turned on somehow.

It's all in your (big) head. You might have a mental block. You need to find some regular way to get turned on. Use it or lose it.
Yeah I've had some days with no erections at all before and mornings with no morning woods.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Probably dietary. Lose abdominal fat. I would try fasting for 3 days. You drink only fresh squeezed juice for 3 days, plus tons of water. Worst case some homemade vegetable broth (steep vegetables in simmering water all day).
 

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Probably dietary. Lose abdominal fat. I would try fasting for 3 days. You drink only fresh squeezed juice for 3 days, plus tons of water. Worst case some homemade vegetable broth (steep vegetables in simmering water all day).
I'm pretty skinny but I can't see abs so I guess I'm skinny fat lol. I don't drink much water at all, like no bottles of water in I can't even remember how long.
 

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Avoid tofu. Avoid microwaving. Avoid plastics. Avoid artificial colors and flavors. Avoid MSG and Aspartame.
Take real, Korean Ginseng (it's a sap, like Molasses).
Try fasting.
No more pharmaceuticals.
Look at pictures of my girlfriend.







There is no amount of "avoidance" that can counter the fact they genetically are producing less testosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less testosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less tesosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less testosterone than the generation before them. It's an environmental issue, it's a genetic issue that is being passed down from the mother to children, and it's an epidemic that nobody wants to talk about.

If the average person in 1950 was starting at 100, the average person today is probably somewhere at 50, each generation has degraded downward...nothing they can do when they are starting at 2/3 or half of what somebody born in 1950 was starting with. Yes, "avoiding" things might help them go from 30 to 48, but they still have a maximum of 50...that's not helping them get back to 100...it's sadly not possible for many these days, and it's not right.
 

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There is no amount of "avoidance" that can counter the fact they genetically are producing less testosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less testosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less tesosterone than the generation before them, who are producing less testosterone than the generation before them. It's an environmental issue, it's a genetic issue that is being passed down from the mother to children, and it's an epidemic that nobody wants to talk about.

If the average person in 1950 was starting at 100, the average person today is probably somewhere at 50, each generation has degraded downward...nothing they can do when they are starting at 2/3 or half of what somebody born in 1950 was starting with. Yes, "avoiding" things might help them go from 30 to 48, but they still have a maximum of 50...that's not helping them get back to 100...it's sadly not possible for many these days, and it's not right.
What do you think I could do about it or what could be the issue? I know I've been told to go to the doc & I'm going on Thursday. I've heard some mixed opinions on it. Some ppl have told me since I can't get erections from stroking and hand stimulation that it's a bad sign and some have said it's not.
 

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What do you think I could do about it or what could be the issue? I know I've been told to go to the doc & I'm going on Thursday. I've heard some mixed opinions on it. Some ppl have told me since I can't get erections from stroking and hand stimulation that it's a bad sign and some have said it's not.
Get your T levels checked and if you are below 500 its an issue...don't buy into that BS that if you are at 350 you are "normal". The "normal" range is 300-1100 which is riduculous. Anyone testing under 500 is likely going to feel like crap...it would be like saying you aren't obese cause you only weigh 280 lbs instead of 300 lbs. Yeah, you might not be obese, but you are still fat as fvck and likely very unhealthy.

Best to rule out T right off the bat since that is the most obvious reason. If that comes back in a good range then you ned to look into other reasons.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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