“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if her ex texted her

FieldDay

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Kind of a sad and pathetic question... How would you feel if your new girlfriend's ex contacted her via text, on average once per month for 3 months, not begging for her back but asking how she was doing. And she ignored them completely...

In this case, I am ex who sent her the text messages. She and the new guy are breaking up, and now i'm paranoid that I might have messed things up if he found out I was still messaging her...

I just don't want to be the catalyst for the break haha. Is this a dealbreaker or turn off that an ex still wants to stay in touch?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

ProDJ26

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Leave it be she's an ex for a reason

She's an EXample of who you're not supposed to be with
 

grayclif

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I just don't want to be the catalyst for the break haha. Is this a dealbreaker or turn off that an ex still wants to stay in touch?
Why are concerned about this. For some reason the "haha" jumps out at me. Spin plates and dont worry about the possibility of her ex contacting her. You have no control over that.
 
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