"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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if her ex texted her

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FieldDay

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Kind of a sad and pathetic question... How would you feel if your new girlfriend's ex contacted her via text, on average once per month for 3 months, not begging for her back but asking how she was doing. And she ignored them completely...

In this case, I am ex who sent her the text messages. She and the new guy are breaking up, and now i'm paranoid that I might have messed things up if he found out I was still messaging her...

I just don't want to be the catalyst for the break haha. Is this a dealbreaker or turn off that an ex still wants to stay in touch?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leave it be she's an ex for a reason

She's an EXample of who you're not supposed to be with
 
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FieldDay said:
I just don't want to be the catalyst for the break haha. Is this a dealbreaker or turn off that an ex still wants to stay in touch?
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Why are concerned about this. For some reason the "haha" jumps out at me. Spin plates and dont worry about the possibility of her ex contacting her. You have no control over that.
 
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