"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If Facebook was gone forever this moment.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Always thought facebook was just for chicks, children and fags.
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Not sure if the old "sex buys attention" rule would still apply but sure it would be much easier and less annoying for us to score them.
The ones suffering the most would be the average girls, deprived from support from their orbiters and their female friends.
Uglies would restart selling themselves to any man for some attention while the hot ones more or the less get plenty in real life despite fb.
Sure it would be girls suffering the most out of it, they would probably experience in stress what guys experience now.
the_stig
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It can still serve a good purpose. All depends on how you use it.
their prime dealer of emotional crack would be gone, chicks would be forced to go to bars and guzzle cvm for the attention they crave..
they already do this for NHL and NBA players but now normal dudes would be getting head in the bathroom stalls in clubs accross america...without facebook chicks would be tetherless and confused, where to post pics of that mediocre maranara sauce she is trying to pass off as edible..ok you're right bishes don't cook...where to post azz shot self pics ...and best of all
NO MORE FISH LIP PICS!!
Yes. I remember reading an article that compared today to American society several decades back. I think it was in the NYT but I'm not sure.Bumsniff said:
It talked about the enormous increase in psychiatrics, social workers, nurses in nursing homes and etc. etc.
And the article called them "professional carers". Said the role of pyschiatrists and pyschologists was usually fulfilled by either family members or close friends. In today's world we really don't give a sh!t about each other and our fellow man. 99% of our friendships on facebook are nothing more than glorified contact entries.
We pay people to give a sh!t about us and to talk openly to them because there are so few people that actually do.
SoSuave666
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Sometimes I need to slow down and unwind. I can't do that if everyone has access to my life. I shut off my cell phone for days at a time, rarely check FB, don't even have a twitter, and generally stay away from computers when I'm not at work. A virtual reality is not something I'm very interested in.
Then again, FB is going nowhere. So there is really no reason for this discussion. Women are all AWs to some degree. Hell, most men are as well. You aren't going to score any points with women by being totally out of touch with the virtual world, but you also aren't going to get anywhere by being the dude who updates FB every 10 minutes.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
And people would actually have to *gasp* interact in real life more! The horror!
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:crackup: :crackup:Blackmm said:
If that goes, people would reactivate their POF, OKCupid, and Black Planet Accounts!
They do that for NFL, CEO, MLB, SAG, BMW, AMG, CBS, NBC, ABC, BET, MTV, COO, CFO players too!Burroughs said:
But, there would still be a smartphone app that women would be into to be away from men. It might be called iHunk, where a woman can interact with a virtual muscular millionaire who wants to get married in a mansion.
I've called it Flakebook and Fakebook.
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Or "Facial" Book.
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Some of the attention craving I see on Facebook (from some guys as well as majority of women) is embarrassing
blind_one
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
