"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If a woman has only had oral sex or been fingered, is she still a virgin?

El Payaso

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If she's never had actual intercourse but had oral sex or fingering, is she still a virgin?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Of course virgin only applies to penile penetration...otherwise there would be no such thing because they have masturbated hundreds of times and probably used vibrators and numerous other things
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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From what I've read....the word 'virgin', in a historical context, means 'untouched'.

Something to be explored.:rofl:
 

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If she's never had actual intercourse but had oral sex or fingering, is she still a virgin?
No, and there is no but.

However, there are fvcked up people in this world, namely muslims, for them it is ok if girl has аnаl sex before marriage, she is still a virgin, if she svcks **** she is still a virgin, etc. There are even more fvcked up muslim denominations which allow a woman to fvck with their friends and family before marriage. They all justify it with koran. Different retards do it differently though. What is acceptable for one denomination, is not for another.
 

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No, and there is no but.

However, there are fvcked up people in this world, namely muslims, for them it is ok if girl has аnаl sex before marriage, she is still a virgin, if she svcks **** she is still a virgin, etc. There are even more fvcked up muslim denominations which allow a woman to fvck with their friends and family before marriage. They all justify it with koran. Different retards do it differently though. What is acceptable for one denomination, is not for another.
In that case only her vagina is virgin, everything else no virgin.:p
 

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Honestly, I would call her a virgin and a slvt at the same time. I was with a woman like this once. True story. She was 30. I was 33. She said she was a virgin and wanted to wait until marriage. Very geeky and traditional kind of woman. She let me munch on that unshaven carper until my cheek muscles turned to mush. She wanted to be sexual and to get off but her Christian values told her she could do anything but have a c0ck stuck in. So for about 4 months I ate her so damn good, and she blew me. Eventually she could not resist and let me stick it in. And I had been with 2 x virgins before that. Enough to know what it is like. So did I consider her a virgin before I stuck it in there? Yes, I did.. But before I did she was sure a slvt!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'll go one better...

How about anal ?...

She's only taken it in the ass... is she still a virgin ?
 

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I believe there are two kinds of virginity men care about, the first one is the d1ck in pvssy type.

The second one which really matters for men is that their c0ck is the first one to enjoy the girl...I dont see how a broken ass girl is any better than broken pvssy one, I would say the opposite.
 

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unless she's been fingered by like 20 guys or something like that I see no reason to be so ridiculous with your definition of virgin to say that someone who has never interacted with a d!ck isn't a virgin

but I guess it depends on why you're asking, if one is concerned about virginity because they have a purity fetish then it depends on how many guys touched her, if one is concerned with red flags for slvttiness then it depends on how many people and on what specific reason she stayed a virgin

I'd say that once a girl has done stuff with a real d!ck she's only a virgin technically rather than in spirit, but it's not a bad thing unless she has a huge N count or something
 

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No, because she allowed someone to get off on her, meaning she was someone's b1tch and now has "skills" true virgins aren't supposed to have. How far do you want to go? Suppose someone takes videos of the act and circulates it on the web. She's still a virgin right?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Honestly, I would call her a virgin and a slvt at the same time. I was with a woman like this once. True story. She was 30. I was 33. She said she was a virgin and wanted to wait until marriage. Very geeky and traditional kind of woman. She let me munch on that unshaven carper until my cheek muscles turned to mush. She wanted to be sexual and to get off but her Christian values told her she could do anything but have a c0ck stuck in. So for about 4 months I ate her so damn good, and she blew me. Eventually she could not resist and let me stick it in. And I had been with 2 x virgins before that. Enough to know what it is like. So did I consider her a virgin before I stuck it in there? Yes, I did.. But before I did she was sure a slvt!!
^^This made me smile, fond memories flooding back, all those virgin slvts, they were so good
 

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I'll go one better...

How about anal ?...

She's only taken it in the ass... is she still a virgin ?
Or if she has only experimented with lesbian sex and never done anything with a guy.....is.she a virgin?
 

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I hate to sound like an SJW, but virginity really is a social/psychological construct for the most part. You can lose your virginity with any sexual act you want to deem losing it (the only caveat is that it's got to be with another person of course).

I guess in anatomical/physical terms, the breaking of the hymen is typically the loss of virginity for a woman, and penile penetration is the loss of it for a man. But I read recently that sometimes the hymen remains intact the first time a woman has sex and in some women it doesn't break for years...so again, it's mostly a philosophical/personal thing.
 

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You could go further for a dude and ask is he a virgin if he fùcks a girl without cumming? My first ever lay, she was 17 and despite already most likely a slùt (she put out on the first date), she was mostly passive and unexciting. I couldn't cùm without jacking off, after hours of on & off sex. Did I technically lose my virginity then?

There's no use getting bogged down in semantics. Sexual experience with another person > no longer a true virgin.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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