You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No, and there is no but.If she's never had actual intercourse but had oral sex or fingering, is she still a virgin?
In that case only her vagina is virgin, everything else no virgin.No, and there is no but.
However, there are fvcked up people in this world, namely muslims, for them it is ok if girl has аnаl sex before marriage, she is still a virgin, if she svcks **** she is still a virgin, etc. There are even more fvcked up muslim denominations which allow a woman to fvck with their friends and family before marriage. They all justify it with koran. Different retards do it differently though. What is acceptable for one denomination, is not for another.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yes, she would be a virgin in the Clintonian sense.If she's never had actual intercourse but had oral sex or fingering, is she still a virgin?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
^^This made me smile, fond memories flooding back, all those virgin slvts, they were so goodHonestly, I would call her a virgin and a slvt at the same time. I was with a woman like this once. True story. She was 30. I was 33. She said she was a virgin and wanted to wait until marriage. Very geeky and traditional kind of woman. She let me munch on that unshaven carper until my cheek muscles turned to mush. She wanted to be sexual and to get off but her Christian values told her she could do anything but have a c0ck stuck in. So for about 4 months I ate her so damn good, and she blew me. Eventually she could not resist and let me stick it in. And I had been with 2 x virgins before that. Enough to know what it is like. So did I consider her a virgin before I stuck it in there? Yes, I did.. But before I did she was sure a slvt!!
Or if she has only experimented with lesbian sex and never done anything with a guy.....is.she a virgin?I'll go one better...
How about anal ?...
She's only taken it in the ass... is she still a virgin ?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.