"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If a single mommy says in her profile that she "has kids, don't want any more", is she basically looking for the Total Beta?

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I was looking at this gal that OKCupid said is a partial "match", and it got me thinking:
White, Other religion, Doesn't smoke cigarettes, Drinks sometimes, Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more, Aries

Looking for men for long-term dating and new friends.
What I mean by Total Beta is a stepfather without the benefit of letting him have one of his own loins. Of course, it could instead just mean she's looking for a Chad to bone her. :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was looking at this gal that OKCupid said is a partial "match", and it got me thinking:


What I mean by Total Beta is a stepfather without the benefit of letting him have one of his own loins. Of course, it could instead just mean she's looking for a Chad to bone her. :rolleyes:
Could very well be a good indication that she had her tubes tied during the last kid delivery and guess what she may want to do with her free time now…
 

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I guess that there's still plenty of "guys" willin to hook up with that "doesn't want kids" because I see these profiles EVERYwhere. I don't catch it and then she says, "I see you say you 'want kids,' is that a deal-breaker," and I'm like "kinda" which in my parlance means, "I'd fvck ya, but not for long, I must move on..."
 

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People still use OkCupid? I thought that site was a ghost town along with POF.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why in the hell do you want to get involved with a single mom, says she doesn't want anymore kids says she's on BC of some sort your shooting bullets into her. Couple months and its surprise your going to be a daddy. You can't believe what these single moms say, not sure what its like where you live but child support payments are $$$$ for single mothers here in Western Canada. I've over heard girls saying get pregnant kick the guy out and collect money.
 
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