“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If a single mommy says in her profile that she "has kids, don't want any more", is she basically looking for the Total Beta?

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I was looking at this gal that OKCupid said is a partial "match", and it got me thinking:
White, Other religion, Doesn't smoke cigarettes, Drinks sometimes, Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more, Aries

Looking for men for long-term dating and new friends.
What I mean by Total Beta is a stepfather without the benefit of letting him have one of his own loins. Of course, it could instead just mean she's looking for a Chad to bone her. :rolleyes:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I was looking at this gal that OKCupid said is a partial "match", and it got me thinking:


What I mean by Total Beta is a stepfather without the benefit of letting him have one of his own loins. Of course, it could instead just mean she's looking for a Chad to bone her. :rolleyes:
Could very well be a good indication that she had her tubes tied during the last kid delivery and guess what she may want to do with her free time now…
 

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I guess that there's still plenty of "guys" willin to hook up with that "doesn't want kids" because I see these profiles EVERYwhere. I don't catch it and then she says, "I see you say you 'want kids,' is that a deal-breaker," and I'm like "kinda" which in my parlance means, "I'd fvck ya, but not for long, I must move on..."
 

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People still use OkCupid? I thought that site was a ghost town along with POF.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Why in the hell do you want to get involved with a single mom, says she doesn't want anymore kids says she's on BC of some sort your shooting bullets into her. Couple months and its surprise your going to be a daddy. You can't believe what these single moms say, not sure what its like where you live but child support payments are $$$$ for single mothers here in Western Canada. I've over heard girls saying get pregnant kick the guy out and collect money.
 
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