"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If a girl likes you or finds you attractive, does it really matter how you handle her

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Uh.........I say hell ya it does matter! Despite what a girl will say, NO GIRL wants a good looking, insecure, wuss!

My opinion of course
 

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Yeah it does. It depends on the level of her interest, and that interest can be gone in the blink of an eye.
 

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The rule is simple: the more interested she is the more faults she's willing to forgive. If a woman loses interest in you over one slip-up then she was probably going to change her mind by the next morning anyway.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good question. A girl with high interest is going to be a lot more forgiving, that's for sure. But it's always best to keep a strong, confident, masculine frame.

Make that the person you really are and you'll have a lot less problems.
 

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A highly interested girl will give you more leeway, but she'll have a limit too.

That is, you still have to game her but your game can be a bit less tight.

Don't fawn, don't supplicate, don't be needy and clingy, etc., all still apply.

And, you should still do a bit of ****y/funny, lead her, be confident, and so on.
 

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I am an expert at this

hahaha i know this very well... if you dont want to lose her escalate quickly.. she already likes/finds you attractive so dont waste any time
 

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Mike32ct said:
Yes.

A girl who is attracted will give you more latitude to make some minor mistakes.

But you still have to escalate and not F up badly.
Mike you are usually solid but what do you mean not F up badly. Who is in charge here?

I would say dont say dumb things and always act confident. But to not F up badly, unless its stealing from her or beating her, is beta talking.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Trump said:
Mike you are usually solid but what do you mean not F up badly. Who is in charge here?

I would say dont say dumb things and always act confident. But to not F up badly, unless its stealing from her or beating her, is beta talking.
I think he means to make sure you don't pull some uber-afc move that will dry her cooch up lol
 

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Trump said:
Mike you are usually solid but what do you mean not F up badly. Who is in charge here?

I would say dont say dumb things and always act confident. But to not F up badly, unless its stealing from her or beating her, is beta talking.
I see where you are coming from. Worrying about F-ing up badly is AFC, no doubt. You should be confident and not focus on what you don't want. But you can still screw up, nevertheless.

By F-ing up badly, I meant, for example, missing a key sign that she's DTF. The "Most Obvious Come Ons Missed" thread are full of those. Most chicks give a SUBTLE sign or phrase that indicates they are DTF. Inexperienced guys might not know them. Even experienced guys miss them sometimes when they are tired, drunk, or just never encountered this particular one before.

So be confident, but keep the radar on, or you could miss good opportunities.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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