Ive been hanging out with this girl probably like 3 times so far. 1st time we kissed. 2nd time did nothing, 3rd time held hands basically the whole night slept together but i was just like (in my head) too drunk to do anything right now so i didnt want to bust a move i could tell she wanted bad though. i think shes the type of girl that expects guys to make a move and fvck her the first chance they get, but i could hold off. Is it bad that I havent made an good faith attempt to bone her? I do want this girl as a gf so i dont want to come off as that guy who will bone the first opportunity and i want to make her wait for just cause i can tell she wants it. i know theres a line drawn on how long i hold off when and if we hang out again i will probably bone her. but am i in the wrong if i want an ltr with her too not immediatley bone her?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
if a girl is ltr material how long should u wait to fvck?
- Thread starter MattS
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
this may be good. Make it seem that you want her, make c&f, kino, but dont fvck her yet. she will be confused, and most likely more interested. build the interest up, and then make the sex a "special thing". make it real romantic, and meaningful (at least make her think it is). then she will be hooked, and not go anywhere. You'll learn that you can never stop manipulating her emotions, even in an LTR. the entire time you will have to be in control, but dont let her know that you are. Its a subliminal thing. being able to manipulate women, most especially their emotions, is important in every relationship you have with them, from friend to LTRs.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
You don't really know if she's LTR material UNTIL you've f*cked her IMO. The last thing you want is to get into an LTR situation with a girl who is physically incompatable with you in between the sheets. I know that sounds kind of harsh to you but take it like this. One of the things girls really look for in a mate is confidence. Confidence in the social areana and confidence in the privacy of your bed room. If you can impress a girl with how good you are in bed and not let that affect how you treat her socially (that part can be tricky for some) then she'll think of you as a keeper.
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Yes, but dont worry its only social brainwashing.MattS said:but am i in the wrong if i want an ltr with her too not immediatley bone her?
If shes a normal, socially healthy and sexually active chick shes had plenty of ONS's already which makes your concern a moot point.
btw same rules should apply to ALL chicks, 3 hookups and no muff...NEXT.
Why? afraid she will think your a man who enjoys sex?I do want this girl as a gf so i dont want to come off as that guy who will bone the first opportunity
Read the D.J Bible.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
just do it when youre not drunk. try it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If she's outgoing/fun type, I'd say about 3-5 dates you can start a sexual relationship. If she's the stay at home/bookish type, I'd say about 7-9 dates.
You may wonder why I have a longer time span for introvert types, the reason being is some of those introvert girls are harder to read, and don't you want to know the girl a bit before starting a sexual relationship with her?
Oh and LTR is not determined by the guy, it's determined by the girl.
You may wonder why I have a longer time span for introvert types, the reason being is some of those introvert girls are harder to read, and don't you want to know the girl a bit before starting a sexual relationship with her?
Oh and LTR is not determined by the guy, it's determined by the girl.