Ive been hanging out with this girl probably like 3 times so far. 1st time we kissed. 2nd time did nothing, 3rd time held hands basically the whole night slept together but i was just like (in my head) too drunk to do anything right now so i didnt want to bust a move i could tell she wanted bad though. i think shes the type of girl that expects guys to make a move and fvck her the first chance they get, but i could hold off. Is it bad that I havent made an good faith attempt to bone her? I do want this girl as a gf so i dont want to come off as that guy who will bone the first opportunity and i want to make her wait for just cause i can tell she wants it. i know theres a line drawn on how long i hold off when and if we hang out again i will probably bone her. but am i in the wrong if i want an ltr with her too not immediatley bone her?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
if a girl is ltr material how long should u wait to fvck?
- Thread starter MattS
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
this may be good. Make it seem that you want her, make c&f, kino, but dont fvck her yet. she will be confused, and most likely more interested. build the interest up, and then make the sex a "special thing". make it real romantic, and meaningful (at least make her think it is). then she will be hooked, and not go anywhere. You'll learn that you can never stop manipulating her emotions, even in an LTR. the entire time you will have to be in control, but dont let her know that you are. Its a subliminal thing. being able to manipulate women, most especially their emotions, is important in every relationship you have with them, from friend to LTRs.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
You don't really know if she's LTR material UNTIL you've f*cked her IMO. The last thing you want is to get into an LTR situation with a girl who is physically incompatable with you in between the sheets. I know that sounds kind of harsh to you but take it like this. One of the things girls really look for in a mate is confidence. Confidence in the social areana and confidence in the privacy of your bed room. If you can impress a girl with how good you are in bed and not let that affect how you treat her socially (that part can be tricky for some) then she'll think of you as a keeper.
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Yes, but dont worry its only social brainwashing.MattS said:but am i in the wrong if i want an ltr with her too not immediatley bone her?
If shes a normal, socially healthy and sexually active chick shes had plenty of ONS's already which makes your concern a moot point.
btw same rules should apply to ALL chicks, 3 hookups and no muff...NEXT.
Why? afraid she will think your a man who enjoys sex?I do want this girl as a gf so i dont want to come off as that guy who will bone the first opportunity
Read the D.J Bible.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
just do it when youre not drunk. try it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If she's outgoing/fun type, I'd say about 3-5 dates you can start a sexual relationship. If she's the stay at home/bookish type, I'd say about 7-9 dates.
You may wonder why I have a longer time span for introvert types, the reason being is some of those introvert girls are harder to read, and don't you want to know the girl a bit before starting a sexual relationship with her?
Oh and LTR is not determined by the guy, it's determined by the girl.
You may wonder why I have a longer time span for introvert types, the reason being is some of those introvert girls are harder to read, and don't you want to know the girl a bit before starting a sexual relationship with her?
Oh and LTR is not determined by the guy, it's determined by the girl.