"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If a girl is best friends with a wh#re how likey is it that she is also one .

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The girl im seeing , i stalked her bestfriends social media and her friend is a ABSOLUTE WH#RE and some of her other friends seem promiscuous too , how likey is it that the girl im seeing is a sl#t too ?
She doesnt upload thrisy pics like them and she doesnt act or talk like a wh#re either .
For example i have a few friends that do drugs but ive never tried a drug in my life if somone on the outside looked in they would go yeah he most likey does drugs too , but i dont.

So how likey is it that if a girls best friend is a sl#t and a few of her other friends are too and all her friends seem single btw. Anyways how likey is it that shes just like them ? Even know tho she doesnt act like it or upload thristy pics like them etc
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The girl im seeing , i stalked her bestfriends social media and her friend is a ABSOLUTE WH#RE and some of her other friends seem promiscuous too , how likey is it that the girl im seeing is a sl#t too ?
She doesnt upload thrisy pics like them and she doesnt act or talk like a wh#re either .
For example i have a few friends that do drugs but ive never tried a drug in my life if somone on the outside looked in they would go yeah he most likey does drugs too , but i dont.

So how likey is it that if a girls best friend is a sl#t and a few of her other friends are too and all her friends seem single btw. Anyways how likey is it that shes just like them ? Even know she doesnt act like it or upload thristy pics like them etc
Depends upon how long they have been friends and how much time they hang out. If they keep hanging around each other some of the wh0re viewpoint will start to rub off, and some of your friends viewpoint will rub off on the wh0re. This is how it is with ANYBODY.
 

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though I could see you trying to have a 3some with then, since it wouldn't be the first time anyway
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Depends upon how long they have been friends and how much time they hang out. If they keep hanging around each other some of the wh0re viewpoint will start to rub off, and some of your friends viewpoint will rub off on the wh0re. This is how it is with ANYBODY.
This is true. Just dated a "Christian" gal and she had a friend that was kind of slutty but hadn't known her for too long and she knew her friend wasn't the best kind of gal a guy could be with, but yet they are still friends.
 

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Then she's definately no exception. You know the saying that you're the sum of the persons closest to you? You can tell alot of a woman from the friends she has and women are largely influenced from their surroundings. BEST friend? Ask youself why she would like to be seen with a certified slvt?
Women usually shun h0es because they give up the goods too easily to men. Sex is supposed to be a hard earned prize for men (in theory), not given away "for free". A non slvt wouldn't want to get involved with such friends. Only someone who doesn't care (h0e) would.
 

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Then she's definately no exception. You know the saying that you're the sum of the persons closest to you? You can tell alot of a woman from the friends she has and women are largely influenced from their surroundings. BEST friend? Ask youself why she would like to be seen with a certified slvt?
Women usually shun h0es because they give up the goods too easily to men. Sex is supposed to be a hard earned prize for men (in theory), not given away "for free". A non slvt wouldn't want to get involved with such friends. Only someone who doesn't care (h0e) would.
So the "wh0re" mindset was much more than giving sex "easily", or giving sex for cash or favor or benefits. The "wh0re" mindset usually was of low integrity, and all these other dysfunctional behavioral characteristics.

You see if a "wh0re" will give their body or sell their body to obtain goods, services, favor or $, imagine what they will do to you for the same goods, services, favor or $?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is true. Just dated a "Christian" gal and she had a friend that was kind of slutty but hadn't known her for too long and she knew her friend wasn't the best kind of gal a guy could be with, but yet they are still friends.
"Christian" girl might not turn into an out and out slut right awaay, but she might start mimicing her friends behavior by lying a little more, and perhaps causing a little more drama than her natural character.
 

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I don’t know what universe y’all love in but hoes turn other girls into hoes. Every fvcking time a new girl would show up to our school, here came to hoebag welcome wagon to befriend her. Few months go by and the new girl is a snobby, fallen down drunk of a ***** just like the girls that befriended her the first day. They all pass around a few Chads and maybe end up pregnant before graduation.
I even dated a girl long after high school who had this friend that was a fall down drunk who insisted that my girlfriend also become a fall down drunk. I ended the relationship over her drinking excessively and weekly. I’m sorry but when you have to go to a fvcking bar on Christmas night to drink, you have a problem. Spend all day with me and my family on Christmas and then because your drunk of a friend wants to go out, you ditch me to go out? **** got out of hand. Turns out she gets in a bad wreck and dui to boot couple weeks after I left her. She always got mad because I hated her friend and told her she was a no good drunk of a *****. Damn if my ex doesn’t email me 2 years later to tell me how right I was but guess what? They’re still friends.lol
 
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I don't understand this classification.

All women are similar.

A girl might pretend to be prudish infront of you.

The same girl would drop her panties the moment Leo flirts with her.

Hypergamy is the truth. I've seen this happen way too often.

Granted some women are more conditioned to avoid sex or refrain but they all follow the basic biological nature which is primal and primitive.

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
 

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I don’t know what universe y’all love in but hoes turn other girls into hoes. Every fvcking time a new girl would show up to our school, here came to hoebag welcome wagon to befriend her. Few months go by and the new girl is a snobby, fallen down drunk of a ***** just like the girls that befriended her the first day. They all pass around a few Chads and maybe end up pregnant before graduation.
I even dated a girl long after high school who had this friend that was a fall down drunk who insisted that my girlfriend also become a fall down drunk. I ended the relationship over her drinking excessively and weekly. I’m sorry but when you have to go to a fvcking bar on Christmas night to drink, you have a problem. Spend all day with me and my family on Christmas and then because your drunk of a friend wants to go out, you ditch me to go out? **** got out of hand. Turns out she gets in a bad wreck and dui to boot couple weeks after I left her. She always got mad because I hated her friend and told her she was a no good drunk of a *****. Damn if my ex doesn’t email me 2 years later to tell me how right I was but guess what? They’re still friends.lol
I think they are not turned but they already are . Me and my best friends like to party a lot and we do lots of stuff .We into fitness , high life , banging as many women as possible . We never asked each other what we liked , we just did things and we were both into those things without question . If not we wouldn’t be best friends . The same goes for women having slutty best friends . If they weren’t a good fit , they wouldn’t be best friends . It’s also a social value thing . If they like to walk around with sluts they don’t care that people might assume the same thing , so it’s alright in their mind to be also considered sluts , maybe they want it also .

The only exception that i can accept, is by just being simple friends . Then that’s different. Perhaps they go out once or twice every 3-4 months .

So if the best friend of your girl is slut or hoe and your gf seem to be the opposite, either she hiding that she also a hoe or you are either blind or stupid to not notice it .
 
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Usually true as sloots of a feather sleep around together. Brace yourself or....
Have a three way.
slowly pick each one off. Or ,.......
Drop the GF and move on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Also, if a woman comes right out and comments favorably on your photos and is detailed with her first message about you (first contact on OLD), then she's a wh0re. That's been my observation. Just happened again. I guess they're more emboldened, to ah, pretty much say anything and not care about if they're being too pushy or needy because they've had soooo many d!cks. Their mind is obliterated. There is no sensitivity or nervousness. It's pretty disgusting, but at least now I firmly know normal girls from wh0res just by messaging with them now.
 

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It all depends. My cousin's best friend is a literal porn star who specializes in ass to mouth, my cousin is about as wholesome as they come. Judge a woman by her merits.
 

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I think they are not turned but they already are . Me and my best friends like to party a lot and we do lots of stuff .We into fitness , high life , banging as many women as possible . We never asked each other what we liked , we just did things and we were both into those things without question . If not we wouldn’t be best friends . The same goes for women having slutty best friends . If they weren’t a good fit , they wouldn’t be best friends . It’s also a social value thing . If they like to walk around with sluts they don’t care that people might assume the same thing , so it’s alright in their mind to be also considered sluts , maybe they want it also .

The only exception that i can accept, is by just being simple friends . Then that’s different. Perhaps they go out once or twice every 3-4 months .

So if the best friend of your girl is slut or hoe and your gf seem to be the opposite, either she hiding that she also a hoe or you are either blind or stupid to not notice it .
What’s funny is my ex used to drink when I first met her, but it got ramped up when she met that chunky hoebag friend of hers. She didn’t like me (because I saw her for what she was) and I didn’t like her. My girlfriend allowed this girl to strain our relationship, Christmas night was just my final “fvck it” moment. Ironically she’s now married and claims she doesn’t drink now. Guess she had to sober up for Beta Bux.lol
 

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It all depends. My cousin's best friend is a literal porn star who specializes in ass to mouth, my cousin is about as wholesome as they come. Judge a woman by her merits.
She needs new friends or she will be judged. Friends you can pick, family you can’t. Why’s she hanging around a trashy woman like that?
 

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Also, if a woman comes right out and comments favorably on your photos and is detailed with her first message about you (first contact on OLD), then she's a wh0re. That's been my observation. Just happened again. I guess they're more emboldened, to ah, pretty much say anything and not care about if they're being too pushy or needy because they've had soooo many d!cks. Their mind is obliterated. There is no sensitivity or nervousness. It's pretty disgusting, but at least now I firmly know normal girls from wh0res just by messaging with them now.
It’s astonishing to witness the fact that wh0res have absolutely NO game whatsoever. Which is weird because you’d think they’d need it to be what they are.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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