"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If a girl is best friends with a wh#re how likey is it that she is also one .

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She needs new friends or she will be judged. Friends you can pick, family you can’t. Why’s she hanging around a trashy woman like that?
She isn't getting judged by anyone who matters. She just had a big heart.They are high school best friends and it's not like that's her only friend.
 

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She isn't getting judged by anyone who matters. She just had a big heart.They are high school best friends and it's not like that's her only friend.
I know she has good intentions but a lot of girls like that (her friends) can be back stabbers and really ruin her reputation. Having a big heart tends to attract narcissists and they feed off of people like that. I had to learn to tone down my “big heart” because I was attracting the type of girls that were bad news.
 

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Depends on how long they've been friends. It's possible the slutty one went through some sh*t and just became one but since they've been friends for awhile, your chick puts up with it. But if they recently met, your girl is a hoe too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It depends on how close they are with each other, how long they’ve been friends with, and how hoey her they firends are. She might not actually be a hoe herself. It’s just that over time, some things DO rub off. And women conform to peer pressure and social pressure more easily than guys do, so just be aware. If it appears like she tries to keep her distance, then there’s actually a good chance that she knows her friend is a hoe and has the awareness and shyness/shame of becoming one herself. If they’re like total fkn besties though, it’s only a matter of time before she becomes a hoe herself.

Here’s the thing though, if you have a stronger social presence than her friend/friends, then she will conform to your standards more so than her friends. And because you are a man, if you are masculine and dominant enough, then you’ll be able to exude that vibe immediately and you can stop her from becoming a hoe if she isn’t one yet. She will eventually need to make a choice of you or them though (unless she already keeps her distance like I said before). She basically has to like you more than she likes them.
 

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The girl im seeing , i stalked her bestfriends social media and her friend is a ABSOLUTE WH#RE and some of her other friends seem promiscuous too , how likey is it that the girl im seeing is a sl#t too ?
She doesnt upload thrisy pics like them and she doesnt act or talk like a wh#re either .
For example i have a few friends that do drugs but ive never tried a drug in my life if somone on the outside looked in they would go yeah he most likey does drugs too , but i dont.

So how likey is it that if a girls best friend is a sl#t and a few of her other friends are too and all her friends seem single btw. Anyways how likey is it that shes just like them ? Even know tho she doesnt act like it or upload thristy pics like them etc

tbh its very likely , just benefit from it and dont take her seriously, hopefully that ship hasnt already sailed
 

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A lot will depend on their age and also the friendship history.
More times than not, I've found that it is not "birds of a feather." Instead, it's a yin/yang thing. The promiscuous one can feel less slvtty if she has a respectable friend and the reserved gal can feel more 'worldly' if she's around someone less 'conservative.'

Good move to check her friends facebook page. If your girl interest has been tagged in photos, then you can get an idea of her lifestyle as well (how she is dressed when going out, how she poses for photos etc...)
 

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It’s astonishing to witness the fact that wh0res have absolutely NO game whatsoever. Which is weird because you’d think they’d need it to be what they are.
Wh0res have their physical attraction signals maxxed out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The girl im seeing , i stalked her bestfriends social media and her friend is a ABSOLUTE WH#RE and some of her other friends seem promiscuous too , how likey is it that the girl im seeing is a sl#t too ?
She doesnt upload thrisy pics like them and she doesnt act or talk like a wh#re either .
For example i have a few friends that do drugs but ive never tried a drug in my life if somone on the outside looked in they would go yeah he most likey does drugs too , but i dont.

So how likey is it that if a girls best friend is a sl#t and a few of her other friends are too and all her friends seem single btw. Anyways how likey is it that shes just like them ? Even know tho she doesnt act like it or upload thristy pics like them etc
Most women are even if they don't go around advertising it
 
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