"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If a girl is acting not normal is ok to ask her what her deal is?

jigga23

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When a girl starts acting strangely out of the blue is it ok to ask her what is going on or just leave it alone?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NEXT HER NOW!!!
CUT OUT ALL CONTACTS
SPIN MORE PLATES
i cant think of anything else
 

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Dole said:
NEXT HER NOW!!!
CUT OUT ALL CONTACTS
SPIN MORE PLATES
i cant think of anything else
You forgot

TAP THAT ASS
NEG NEG NEG
DO THE CUBE
DO THE MAKE OUT OPENER

jigga23, we need a bit more information. Who is this girl to you? How is she acting weird. Tell us what ever you think is relevant.
 

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too many details to get into but overall i just wanna know if a girl will get mad or something if you ask them whats up.
 

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jigga23 said:
too many details to get into but overall i just wanna know if a girl will get mad or something if you ask them whats up.
I think you have bigger things to worry about...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Nothing wrong with asking her what is up. If things still continue (by her acting weird.) Think about breaking it off.
 

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jigga23 said:
When a girl starts acting strangely out of the blue is it ok to ask her what is going on or just leave it alone?
If you want her as friend, sure. The minute she realises that her ways affect your emotions she'll most likely take you for granted. Ocupy your time in something that's more important.
 

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lol drkt
atleast someone finds it amusing :)
 

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"Listen I garner a certian amount of respect around here and I can't have you f*cking with my universe. You either straigten up or I'm gonna have to close up shop here got it?"

Drop that one on her. At least you'll feel some what cool before she slaps you and calls you a jerk.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I want to add something. We have no idea why she is upset. Some of you want to jump to the conclusion it's something horrible. Your not gonna know why she is "upset" until you ask her! Like, I said above... If she keeps acting weird after you have a talk with her then, something is up. Or she straight out tells you something you don;t wanna hear. Then, you know what to do. Other than that, its about communication.
 

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...i can't believe some one the stuff i'm reading... i understand the sarcasm... but some are actually being serious.

just say: "hey... how are you doing? you look upset."

i can't imagine a female that's remotely interested in me thinking: "oh no you didn't! you are going STRAIGHT into the friendzone, mister!"

they'd probably actually thank you for showing interest in them. then they'll tell you what's up.

then say: and... so, how does that make you FEEL <with a serious look>? ...but, make it quick i got another appointment in <look at fake watch on wrist> 2.5 minutes."
 
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