"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If a girl is acting not normal is ok to ask her what her deal is?
- Thread starter jigga23
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
You forgotDole said:
TAP THAT ASS
NEG NEG NEG
DO THE CUBE
DO THE MAKE OUT OPENER
jigga23, we need a bit more information. Who is this girl to you? How is she acting weird. Tell us what ever you think is relevant.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I think you have bigger things to worry about...jigga23 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Drop that one on her. At least you'll feel some what cool before she slaps you and calls you a jerk.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Michele l'Arcangelo
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just say: "hey... how are you doing? you look upset."
i can't imagine a female that's remotely interested in me thinking: "oh no you didn't! you are going STRAIGHT into the friendzone, mister!"
they'd probably actually thank you for showing interest in them. then they'll tell you what's up.
then say: and... so, how does that make you FEEL <with a serious look>? ...but, make it quick i got another appointment in <look at fake watch on wrist> 2.5 minutes."