"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If a FEMALE frend Hangs up on you do u become a Jerk? Nice guy? or keep steppin?

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O k i have this "fren" we speak on a regular basis and were kool..or so i thought. I called her today and we started to talk.

Me"hey wassup."
Her: nothin i jus got in i comin from ma grandmothers."
Me: oh zeen usually do that?
Her: .....i go there.
Me:no like a daily activity...
....
me: hello?? hello???
...beep.. beep ..beep...

ok So its a bit funny..
i Jus want to know where should i go from here with the frenship?

Advice ppl!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ye thats wat i been thinking figure ill see her or talk to her later on and see wat happens
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Porky

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You should DJ all women you know.

Point in case: I have a friend who I've known for five years. She's seen me at my best and at my worst, and I sometimes forget to be suave and confident around her, and instead I become...well, myself.

Every so often she takes me for granted or annoys me in some other way, and I started to DJ her. Within an hour or two she becomes clingy and I get the power back.

Just saying...treat all women the same.
 

ScrewIt

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uh..maybe the phone got cut off for other reasons??

anyway yea i have a female friend that does that.
before i even get to say bye, she's already hung up.
once the convo is assumingly over, she hangs up before me, always!! that *****

i djed her and i think she likes me now, it freaks me out tho.
cant even look her in the eye no more cause i know she likes me...
 
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