"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IDK why this would creep her out

captain55

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So long story short I was seeing this chick, who lives about two hours away from me. About a month ago she goes completely ghost, would hardly ever text me. Once the paperwork starting come through with her divorce she kind of closed herself off but we started talking again.

Was suppose to go out and see her this week but she ended up working overtime and we couldn't meet up. We made plans on a saturday and I came out there monday assuming our plans were still on, she ended up not texting me back until the next day because she was working overtime. While I was out there I went to this hookah lounge and had a smoke, I recognized the owner and asked the guy if he has seen the girl around .. HE's like yeah she was here the other day Im like oh cool, do you remember if she was with her girlfriends who was she was with? He told me no she was by herself. Im like oh ok...then he's like why is everything ok? Can I take a name? Im like ok tell her mike said hey .

I admit I kind of had a brain fart here, I should of kept my mouth shout but was this crossing the line IYO? Keep in mind its not like Ive only been on one date with the chick... she never friend zoned me, and she contacted me literally two days before all this happened and we were talking about taking a trip together. Ive already made out with her a couple times....

Obviously I creeped her out. Any way I can still make things right here?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sounds like like some 90s psycho thriller.
 

GS750

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Another guy? Busy with stuff? Depressed over her divorce? The list could be endless. Looks like she flaked. You know what to do.
 
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