“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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IDK why this would creep her out

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So long story short I was seeing this chick, who lives about two hours away from me. About a month ago she goes completely ghost, would hardly ever text me. Once the paperwork starting come through with her divorce she kind of closed herself off but we started talking again.

Was suppose to go out and see her this week but she ended up working overtime and we couldn't meet up. We made plans on a saturday and I came out there monday assuming our plans were still on, she ended up not texting me back until the next day because she was working overtime. While I was out there I went to this hookah lounge and had a smoke, I recognized the owner and asked the guy if he has seen the girl around .. HE's like yeah she was here the other day Im like oh cool, do you remember if she was with her girlfriends who was she was with? He told me no she was by herself. Im like oh ok...then he's like why is everything ok? Can I take a name? Im like ok tell her mike said hey .

I admit I kind of had a brain fart here, I should of kept my mouth shout but was this crossing the line IYO? Keep in mind its not like Ive only been on one date with the chick... she never friend zoned me, and she contacted me literally two days before all this happened and we were talking about taking a trip together. Ive already made out with her a couple times....

Obviously I creeped her out. Any way I can still make things right here?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Sounds like like some 90s psycho thriller.
 

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Another guy? Busy with stuff? Depressed over her divorce? The list could be endless. Looks like she flaked. You know what to do.
 
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