"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Identical twins, an odd situation

sharpshooter

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Ok. So I flirted it up with an identical twin today at a grocery store. Her identical twin was working right next to her at the other register/checkout lane. So I cracked all these identical twin c/f comments, and I had her in my palms basically. Then I started building some rapport with her, asking her how long she's worked there, etc etc. I was surprised that she was 25 because she looked 18! I commented on that, we joked about it. Then afterwards I was like alright I'll see you later, and she said some parting words. My deep seduction voice worked.

the ONLY problem is.....the next time I go grocery shopping i'm gonna have to make sure that I approach HER and not her identical twin (who was watching us, so she'll recognize me if i try hitting on her haha)

I would have got her # but there was just no time, plus I wanted to build up some solid rapport. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oh yea, i was stupid enoguh to not even look at her name tag

one case of too much eye contact gone bad, so rare
 

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just wait for her to acknowledge you. If you spit any game then she'll remember you next time and want to talk some more.
 
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You can ask a joke question... like..." Are you you or are you your twin?"

You could ask her something like... if she was the cute twin or the ugly one... But only if you have the guts and the opportunity...

You could have just asked if there were any ways of telling them apart... but that isn't gonna happen before next time... so...
 

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i do remember one difference though

the one i was talking to had shinier hair, and was wearing more mascara
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by sharpshooter
I would have got her # but there was just no time, plus I wanted to build up some solid rapport. :)
No excuses, if you see a girl you like get her number - there may be no second chances - trust me on this! The hell with building rapport - this can't be done in a minute over a purchasing transaction. Just say, "I would like to see you outside of work, what is your number?" See ya!!!!!
 
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