"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Identical twins, an odd situation

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Ok. So I flirted it up with an identical twin today at a grocery store. Her identical twin was working right next to her at the other register/checkout lane. So I cracked all these identical twin c/f comments, and I had her in my palms basically. Then I started building some rapport with her, asking her how long she's worked there, etc etc. I was surprised that she was 25 because she looked 18! I commented on that, we joked about it. Then afterwards I was like alright I'll see you later, and she said some parting words. My deep seduction voice worked.

the ONLY problem is.....the next time I go grocery shopping i'm gonna have to make sure that I approach HER and not her identical twin (who was watching us, so she'll recognize me if i try hitting on her haha)

I would have got her # but there was just no time, plus I wanted to build up some solid rapport. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oh yea, i was stupid enoguh to not even look at her name tag

one case of too much eye contact gone bad, so rare
 
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just wait for her to acknowledge you. If you spit any game then she'll remember you next time and want to talk some more.
 
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You can ask a joke question... like..." Are you you or are you your twin?"

You could ask her something like... if she was the cute twin or the ugly one... But only if you have the guts and the opportunity...

You could have just asked if there were any ways of telling them apart... but that isn't gonna happen before next time... so...
 
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i do remember one difference though

the one i was talking to had shinier hair, and was wearing more mascara
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by sharpshooter
I would have got her # but there was just no time, plus I wanted to build up some solid rapport. :)
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No excuses, if you see a girl you like get her number - there may be no second chances - trust me on this! The hell with building rapport - this can't be done in a minute over a purchasing transaction. Just say, "I would like to see you outside of work, what is your number?" See ya!!!!!
 
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