"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Identical twins, an odd situation

sharpshooter

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Ok. So I flirted it up with an identical twin today at a grocery store. Her identical twin was working right next to her at the other register/checkout lane. So I cracked all these identical twin c/f comments, and I had her in my palms basically. Then I started building some rapport with her, asking her how long she's worked there, etc etc. I was surprised that she was 25 because she looked 18! I commented on that, we joked about it. Then afterwards I was like alright I'll see you later, and she said some parting words. My deep seduction voice worked.

the ONLY problem is.....the next time I go grocery shopping i'm gonna have to make sure that I approach HER and not her identical twin (who was watching us, so she'll recognize me if i try hitting on her haha)

I would have got her # but there was just no time, plus I wanted to build up some solid rapport. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sharpshooter

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oh yea, i was stupid enoguh to not even look at her name tag

one case of too much eye contact gone bad, so rare
 

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just wait for her to acknowledge you. If you spit any game then she'll remember you next time and want to talk some more.
 
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You can ask a joke question... like..." Are you you or are you your twin?"

You could ask her something like... if she was the cute twin or the ugly one... But only if you have the guts and the opportunity...

You could have just asked if there were any ways of telling them apart... but that isn't gonna happen before next time... so...
 

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i do remember one difference though

the one i was talking to had shinier hair, and was wearing more mascara
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by sharpshooter
I would have got her # but there was just no time, plus I wanted to build up some solid rapport. :)
No excuses, if you see a girl you like get her number - there may be no second chances - trust me on this! The hell with building rapport - this can't be done in a minute over a purchasing transaction. Just say, "I would like to see you outside of work, what is your number?" See ya!!!!!
 
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