"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ideas to get her in the bedroom ?

Bingo-Player

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Got a chick coming over tonight im pretty confident shes DTF but shes not the sharpest tool in the shed and doesn’t seem to respond to subtle hints very well at all

Basically ive got a large open plan living room downstairs with a tv and sofas and stuff which we can chill on but ideally i want her upstairs in my lare once shes in my bed she hasnt got a chance

I dont think theres going to be much if any alcohol involved tonight so the chances of her inviting herself up there are slim

Thinking of saying the dvd player downstairs is broken so we will have to watch the movie upstairs ??

Or has anyone got anything smoother ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desdinova

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I keep a record player in my bedroom, so sometimes I'll invite her in to listen to records.

If you can get her into a makeout session, all you need to do is take her hand, say "come with me" and lead her into the bedroom. They generally don't ask and if they do, answer with "Just come". Women follow if you lead. No rocket science involved :)
 

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Desdinova said:
If you can get her into a makeout session, all you need to do is take her hand, say "come with me" and lead her into the bedroom. They generally don't ask and if they do, answer with "Just come". Women follow if you lead. No rocket science involved :)
yea im aware of this , but generally i like to go slightly more under the radar in this type of sceneario i find it turns them on like crazy when they realise youve set the whole thing up and she has no choice but to submiss to you
 

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If you can't get her hot and bothered enough downstairs and then just say 'come with me', no amount of lame excuses to 'get her upstairs' is going to amount to anything.
 

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Whenever in doubt as to how to, always revert back to this question:

What would a man with steel balls do at this moment?

I usually go with while extending my hand, "Come ... we are going upstairs."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tictac - you are a grumpy old man that somehow offers absolutley no wisdom or positivitey in anything you say
 

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Start making out downstairs, then undo her bra and start playing w/ titties..and that's when you suggest that you'd be more comfortable upstairs..;)
 
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