"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ideas to get her in the bedroom ?

Bingo-Player

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Got a chick coming over tonight im pretty confident shes DTF but shes not the sharpest tool in the shed and doesn’t seem to respond to subtle hints very well at all

Basically ive got a large open plan living room downstairs with a tv and sofas and stuff which we can chill on but ideally i want her upstairs in my lare once shes in my bed she hasnt got a chance

I dont think theres going to be much if any alcohol involved tonight so the chances of her inviting herself up there are slim

Thinking of saying the dvd player downstairs is broken so we will have to watch the movie upstairs ??

Or has anyone got anything smoother ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I keep a record player in my bedroom, so sometimes I'll invite her in to listen to records.

If you can get her into a makeout session, all you need to do is take her hand, say "come with me" and lead her into the bedroom. They generally don't ask and if they do, answer with "Just come". Women follow if you lead. No rocket science involved :)
 

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Desdinova said:
If you can get her into a makeout session, all you need to do is take her hand, say "come with me" and lead her into the bedroom. They generally don't ask and if they do, answer with "Just come". Women follow if you lead. No rocket science involved :)
yea im aware of this , but generally i like to go slightly more under the radar in this type of sceneario i find it turns them on like crazy when they realise youve set the whole thing up and she has no choice but to submiss to you
 

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If you can't get her hot and bothered enough downstairs and then just say 'come with me', no amount of lame excuses to 'get her upstairs' is going to amount to anything.
 

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Whenever in doubt as to how to, always revert back to this question:

What would a man with steel balls do at this moment?

I usually go with while extending my hand, "Come ... we are going upstairs."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tictac - you are a grumpy old man that somehow offers absolutley no wisdom or positivitey in anything you say
 

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Start making out downstairs, then undo her bra and start playing w/ titties..and that's when you suggest that you'd be more comfortable upstairs..;)
 
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