"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I know you can't help who you are/aren't attracted to, but it would be better on my sanity though, if some girls of my age bracket would be a bit more mature and treat those 'lesser' people in their eyes with dignity, rather than try to create their own exclusive posse of good-looking people by shutting out everyone else. If they are still acting like this at say 35 they are fvcked.

That's what's holding so many guys down I think- these girls' notion that you are worth nothing to society if you aren't good-looking. Girls like this reinforce this notion the most I think.

I have an experience of girls like this from 18-present. I have subsequently gone on with thoughts of overall failure in life, and now I have no focus, no direction because my outlook is bad. I just wanna cry to the point that I have really focused more these days on helping disadvantaged people- I don't care anymore about fashion student type girls who judge everyone.

Some of you have talked about unconditional love on this forum. Maybe that's what I need, and perhaps just disappointed that I can't get it.



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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mature (say 35+) women are shallow too. They never completely get over that. However, they are sometimes slightly less shallow than an 18 to 25 yo girl.

That's good that you are helping the disadvantaged.

I'm generally polite and kind to females of ALL looks, EXECPT the ones that roll their eyes or think they're too good for me. F them. That's why I never agreed with the "approach any female" that the PUAs recommend. IMO, there are some women you just don't or shouldn't pay attention to. Not because of their looks, but their attitude/vibe. If I sense hostility from her because I don't fit the profile of what she finds hot, it would be really silly to approach her.
 
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That last part was why I thought the club scene was not for me.
 
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As hopeless and helpless I think of myself, with little direction/focus in life, even as little as putting change in a charity box takes the focus off me somewhat- its helping people who don't have or can't afford the mentality of much of Western culture, where it seems being attractive shouldn't be taken for granted.

In my youth, I've seen wheelchair-bound people being stigmatized by the girls in this culture. It's as if we don't care.
 
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