"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know you can't help who you are/aren't attracted to, but it would be better on my sanity though, if some girls of my age bracket would be a bit more mature and treat those 'lesser' people in their eyes with dignity, rather than try to create their own exclusive posse of good-looking people by shutting out everyone else. If they are still acting like this at say 35 they are fvcked.

That's what's holding so many guys down I think- these girls' notion that you are worth nothing to society if you aren't good-looking. Girls like this reinforce this notion the most I think.

I have an experience of girls like this from 18-present. I have subsequently gone on with thoughts of overall failure in life, and now I have no focus, no direction because my outlook is bad. I just wanna cry to the point that I have really focused more these days on helping disadvantaged people- I don't care anymore about fashion student type girls who judge everyone.

Some of you have talked about unconditional love on this forum. Maybe that's what I need, and perhaps just disappointed that I can't get it.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mature (say 35+) women are shallow too. They never completely get over that. However, they are sometimes slightly less shallow than an 18 to 25 yo girl.

That's good that you are helping the disadvantaged.

I'm generally polite and kind to females of ALL looks, EXECPT the ones that roll their eyes or think they're too good for me. F them. That's why I never agreed with the "approach any female" that the PUAs recommend. IMO, there are some women you just don't or shouldn't pay attention to. Not because of their looks, but their attitude/vibe. If I sense hostility from her because I don't fit the profile of what she finds hot, it would be really silly to approach her.
 
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That last part was why I thought the club scene was not for me.
 
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As hopeless and helpless I think of myself, with little direction/focus in life, even as little as putting change in a charity box takes the focus off me somewhat- its helping people who don't have or can't afford the mentality of much of Western culture, where it seems being attractive shouldn't be taken for granted.

In my youth, I've seen wheelchair-bound people being stigmatized by the girls in this culture. It's as if we don't care.
 
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