Hey guys, Im just wondering if anyone has ideas for dates that cost little money, I mean spending a few dollars here and there isnt too bad and I like to take the "traditional" route and pay for dates, like most men do. But anyone have any suggestions for cheap dates, cause seriously I want to start saving money for tuition lol.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ideas for "Free" Dates?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Frisbee Golf
A great free date idea is Frisbee Golf. It is good for a number of reasons.
1. Frisbee is cheap (10) and park is free.
2. Odds are the girl will be terrible a good way to "neg" her, you will probably suck if its your first time.
3. Gives you a great oppurtunity to talk and being outdoors.
4. It is actually fun and not to challenging, even for the weakest girls.
A great free date idea is Frisbee Golf. It is good for a number of reasons.
1. Frisbee is cheap (10) and park is free.
2. Odds are the girl will be terrible a good way to "neg" her, you will probably suck if its your first time.
3. Gives you a great oppurtunity to talk and being outdoors.
4. It is actually fun and not to challenging, even for the weakest girls.
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5. many people have never played the game before doing something new and fun is always a plus.
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so whats the golf part in frisbee golf?
Go to a store with a girl, and have fun. Furniture stores are the best imho. Just walk around and imagine things. Sit down on the couches, talk, and bring her into your world.
Go to a store with a girl, and have fun. Furniture stores are the best imho. Just walk around and imagine things. Sit down on the couches, talk, and bring her into your world.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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mtlwlu said:
lol it's "out there", but it's so fun!
I went to IKEA with my girlfriend a few days ago, and just walking around in that store gives you ideas. There's "rooms" all ready, with beds, couches, kitchen and stuff. We went on a week day so there's wasn't a lot of people, and I had so much fun creating my own world in there. Pretend you're married and she has to cook you something. Or try the beds out and be provocative. Pretend you're really snobby people walking around.
Really, you can do this anywhere; doesn't matter so much where you go, as long as your personality holds its part. And roleplaying is the best for this: pretend you're an actor, and have fun with it. Change the role every once in a while, and you're set to be both unpredictable, fun, challenging, but best of all: you'll be unique