Hey guys, Im just wondering if anyone has ideas for dates that cost little money, I mean spending a few dollars here and there isnt too bad and I like to take the "traditional" route and pay for dates, like most men do. But anyone have any suggestions for cheap dates, cause seriously I want to start saving money for tuition lol.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ideas for "Free" Dates?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Frisbee Golf
A great free date idea is Frisbee Golf. It is good for a number of reasons.
1. Frisbee is cheap (10) and park is free.
2. Odds are the girl will be terrible a good way to "neg" her, you will probably suck if its your first time.
3. Gives you a great oppurtunity to talk and being outdoors.
4. It is actually fun and not to challenging, even for the weakest girls.
A great free date idea is Frisbee Golf. It is good for a number of reasons.
1. Frisbee is cheap (10) and park is free.
2. Odds are the girl will be terrible a good way to "neg" her, you will probably suck if its your first time.
3. Gives you a great oppurtunity to talk and being outdoors.
4. It is actually fun and not to challenging, even for the weakest girls.
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5. many people have never played the game before doing something new and fun is always a plus.
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so whats the golf part in frisbee golf?
Go to a store with a girl, and have fun. Furniture stores are the best imho. Just walk around and imagine things. Sit down on the couches, talk, and bring her into your world.
Go to a store with a girl, and have fun. Furniture stores are the best imho. Just walk around and imagine things. Sit down on the couches, talk, and bring her into your world.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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mtlwlu said:
lol it's "out there", but it's so fun!
I went to IKEA with my girlfriend a few days ago, and just walking around in that store gives you ideas. There's "rooms" all ready, with beds, couches, kitchen and stuff. We went on a week day so there's wasn't a lot of people, and I had so much fun creating my own world in there. Pretend you're married and she has to cook you something. Or try the beds out and be provocative. Pretend you're really snobby people walking around.
Really, you can do this anywhere; doesn't matter so much where you go, as long as your personality holds its part. And roleplaying is the best for this: pretend you're an actor, and have fun with it. Change the role every once in a while, and you're set to be both unpredictable, fun, challenging, but best of all: you'll be unique