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Ideas for "Free" Dates?

mtlwlu

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Hey guys, Im just wondering if anyone has ideas for dates that cost little money, I mean spending a few dollars here and there isnt too bad and I like to take the "traditional" route and pay for dates, like most men do. But anyone have any suggestions for cheap dates, cause seriously I want to start saving money for tuition lol.
 

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beach? park? or just tell her u dont have money lol.

but i usually use beach, well since there is a beach close by and lots of opportunities for kino and other good stuff.
 

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Frisbee Golf

A great free date idea is Frisbee Golf. It is good for a number of reasons.

1. Frisbee is cheap (10) and park is free.
2. Odds are the girl will be terrible a good way to "neg" her, you will probably suck if its your first time.
3. Gives you a great oppurtunity to talk and being outdoors.
4. It is actually fun and not to challenging, even for the weakest girls.
 

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5. many people have never played the game before doing something new and fun is always a plus.
 

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so whats the golf part in frisbee golf?

Go to a store with a girl, and have fun. Furniture stores are the best imho. Just walk around and imagine things. Sit down on the couches, talk, and bring her into your world. :)
 

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Id never think about going to a furniture store on a date but thats actually pretty creative lol.
 

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mtlwlu said:
Id never think about going to a furniture store on a date but thats actually pretty creative lol.

lol it's "out there", but it's so fun!

I went to IKEA with my girlfriend a few days ago, and just walking around in that store gives you ideas. There's "rooms" all ready, with beds, couches, kitchen and stuff. We went on a week day so there's wasn't a lot of people, and I had so much fun creating my own world in there. Pretend you're married and she has to cook you something. Or try the beds out and be provocative. Pretend you're really snobby people walking around.

Really, you can do this anywhere; doesn't matter so much where you go, as long as your personality holds its part. And roleplaying is the best for this: pretend you're an actor, and have fun with it. Change the role every once in a while, and you're set to be both unpredictable, fun, challenging, but best of all: you'll be unique ;)
 
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