"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Idea's for forums...

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There's been a constant debate lately as to closing forums, making new forums and the like.

Here's an idea I have for a group of forums for the ss.com community.

Don Juan General Discussion - A place for adult DJs to come together to discuss women, dating, and the methods involved in becoming a real man.

High School Discussion Forum - A place for teenagers in high school to discuss high school girls, reputation and overall life in high school. Intended to provide the info necessary to live the best HS life possible.

College Discussion Forum - A place to discuss DJing in the world of university/college. The setting is VERY different, the women are different and the rules change.

The Archive - I think we should remove the Tips forum and replace it solely with the Archive. All the posts that could be labelled a 'tip' should be made in whatever forum it's most necessary. The truly great tips will be moved here as a source of reference. Examples: The Bibles, Book of Shuma Gora, most of Pook's posts.

Health and Fitness Forum - Keep this the same, a source of knowledge for getting in shape.

Speed Seduction Forum - Discussion for NLP and the Speed Seduction methods of meeting women.

Keep the Moderator's Corner and Suggestions and Feedback forums. Remove the Anything Else and put a chat room back in for everyone to chat about general topics. Doing this should hopefully put more emphasis on actually learning and applying DJ methods, and less on posting wars, useless topics, whining AFCs and the like.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well I've already started up a Speed Seduction Forum for DJs in High School, because it's a different experience for us. See sig.

Also I think a College Forum is essential and I'm surprised one hasn't been made already.
 
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