"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Idea's for forums...

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There's been a constant debate lately as to closing forums, making new forums and the like.

Here's an idea I have for a group of forums for the ss.com community.

Don Juan General Discussion - A place for adult DJs to come together to discuss women, dating, and the methods involved in becoming a real man.

High School Discussion Forum - A place for teenagers in high school to discuss high school girls, reputation and overall life in high school. Intended to provide the info necessary to live the best HS life possible.

College Discussion Forum - A place to discuss DJing in the world of university/college. The setting is VERY different, the women are different and the rules change.

The Archive - I think we should remove the Tips forum and replace it solely with the Archive. All the posts that could be labelled a 'tip' should be made in whatever forum it's most necessary. The truly great tips will be moved here as a source of reference. Examples: The Bibles, Book of Shuma Gora, most of Pook's posts.

Health and Fitness Forum - Keep this the same, a source of knowledge for getting in shape.

Speed Seduction Forum - Discussion for NLP and the Speed Seduction methods of meeting women.

Keep the Moderator's Corner and Suggestions and Feedback forums. Remove the Anything Else and put a chat room back in for everyone to chat about general topics. Doing this should hopefully put more emphasis on actually learning and applying DJ methods, and less on posting wars, useless topics, whining AFCs and the like.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I've already started up a Speed Seduction Forum for DJs in High School, because it's a different experience for us. See sig.

Also I think a College Forum is essential and I'm surprised one hasn't been made already.
 
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