"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ideas for a first date?

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Going out with a girl at work. Date hasn't been set, but I asked her out and she said yes.

I'd really like to start something with her, but I get the idea she's still acting like a friend...but she did agree to go out, so I imagine she has an idea that I am interested in her for more.

First date, need ideas, dinner and a movie is usually safe, but dull, done to death, and expected. So while it's always an option, I'd like to try somethine new.

Any ideas are appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Doesn't it take just as long to make a link to a page with search results as it does to throw out a few ideas?

Why not try something like going to see a local play, for some reason that's always worked out better than a movie, maybe just because it's different. A concert to a music group that you both like works great too.

Take her on a hike to the top of a mountain/favorite overlook. The girls love that. Standing at the top makes a great opporotunity for hugging/kissing, etc.
 

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Originally posted by skinnydart
Doesn't it take just as long to make a link to a page with search results as it does to throw out a few ideas?

Why not try something like going to see a local play, for some reason that's always worked out better than a movie, maybe just because it's different. A concert to a music group that you both like works great too.

Take her on a hike to the top of a mountain/favorite overlook. The girls love that. Standing at the top makes a great opporotunity for hugging/kissing, etc.
No it doesn't. Some of these topics have been asked tons of times, without the poster reading the archived stuff, wich by the way, has a lot of great ideas.

Each response here is not just for the original poster, but for the many who will see it, who can benefit from previously posted stuff.

There are much better ideas out there. You just have to not be to too lazy to go look it up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not so much a matter of laziness as it is just not being on the board that long and not knowing all of the ins and outs.
 

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If this board is reserved for discussing questions that have never been asked previously, they might as well close it.
 

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I'm a fan of pool and ice skating.

Ice skating I havnt done in ages though - mainly cause they've always gotta pick my ****y butt off of the floor when I push it too hard :D

Ice Skating == great.... lots of kino :)
 

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Ask her along to something fun you do in your life.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Like DJBen said, I like the ice skating idea. It's fun and lots of kino, esp if they cant skate. Maybe I'm also a fan of it because I play Hockey and I can show off lol. :D
But yea, like the others said theres a lot of ideas on this site, just search for some. Good Luck
 
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