"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hey fellow DJs!

need your input for this 3rd date I plan on going on probably next week.. Went out with this girl once for dinner and once for lunch already. I think her interest level is about 60%, I wanna try to get that up higher... I haven't called or emailed her too much, I talk to her about once a week... She says she's into concerts, comedy show, broadway shows, but not really into sports.. I want to do something fun and exciting, and hopefully raise her interest level more in me.. which activities would you guys stick with?? she said that she wouldn't mind going to see a basketball game, I have tickets to see the Knicks next week, you think I should ask her to go?? Or should I try the broadway show with her?? Thanks..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it sounds like you've already made two steps foward with lunch and dinner... now try one step back
 
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Thanks Soprano! could you elaborate on that? should I just go for a drink now with her or something? I guess what you trying to say is don't go for the expensive event yet? I called her up this past Saturday, just to wish her a happy birthday.. I told her I was going to be busy meeting up with some friends.. Trying to utilize the "Scarcity principle" :D
 
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I don't think dinner or lunch were mistakes. I've gone out on dinner dates probably 50 times by now and that hasn't influenced the direction of the relationship for better or worse.

Since she flat-out told you that she doesn't like sports, I'd avoid the Knick game. I thought that would go without saying but apparently not. Since she said she likes comedy, take her to a comedy show. Get the beer flowing a little bit to loosen her up. If she is laughing, and drinking, and the date is going well, tell her that you guys should rent a movie and relax the rest of the night. Then, make your move.

Blitz
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thanks guys... I will keep the comedy show, and mall idea in mind.. She doesn't like the cold weather so I definitely won't do ice skating or hiking...
 
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