"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ideal weight and lifting plan for a 30 year old man

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Stats: Age 30, Weight: fluctuates between 187-190 lbs, 14%-15% Bodyfat, height: 6ft

I have been from 179 lbs to 245 lbs and I feel like I am fat because I do not clearly visible abs. In addition, the appeal to lifting heavy things isn't as attractive to me anymore. Anyone in a similar situation or was?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Depends what your goals are. Do you want to get lean or do you want to try and build muscle?

Or do both at the same time, but not as effectively as either by itself?
 

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I have more of a Tom Hardy Physique right now similar to this picture. I don't want to get fatter, but I don't want to get skinnier to where It's hard for me to maintain that weight due to genetic eating patterns.

 

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You need to pick a direction dude. I'd recommend 3 month bulk, 3 month cut. Never get too fat, never get so lean as to risk muscle loss.
I think my biggest issue has been my diet because I have consistently been at the gym. I am going to set a meal plan for breakfast and lunch so I can have a lot of room at dinner.
 

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I did this during my cut and it worked VERY well.

I effectively followed this, but with my own supplements and meals:
I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum. I track everything that goes into my body. Usually have a cheat day on Sunday but I don't go as crazy as I used to.

Doing that once or twice a day would be a non starter for me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did you actually read the article?
Yeah it's basically a version of OMAD from what I can tell or 18-6 depending on how you do it with Amino Acid pulses twice a day.

I've tried OMAD, 16-8, 20-4, the Warrior Diet, Eat-Stop-Eat, etc...

My favorite is the one I currently use which is a modified 5:2 fasting cycle with carb cycling, 40% protein and meticulous calorie tracking
 
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