"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ideal weight and lifting plan for a 30 year old man

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Stats: Age 30, Weight: fluctuates between 187-190 lbs, 14%-15% Bodyfat, height: 6ft

I have been from 179 lbs to 245 lbs and I feel like I am fat because I do not clearly visible abs. In addition, the appeal to lifting heavy things isn't as attractive to me anymore. Anyone in a similar situation or was?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Depends what your goals are. Do you want to get lean or do you want to try and build muscle?

Or do both at the same time, but not as effectively as either by itself?
 

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I have more of a Tom Hardy Physique right now similar to this picture. I don't want to get fatter, but I don't want to get skinnier to where It's hard for me to maintain that weight due to genetic eating patterns.

 

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You need to pick a direction dude. I'd recommend 3 month bulk, 3 month cut. Never get too fat, never get so lean as to risk muscle loss.
I think my biggest issue has been my diet because I have consistently been at the gym. I am going to set a meal plan for breakfast and lunch so I can have a lot of room at dinner.
 

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I did this during my cut and it worked VERY well.

I effectively followed this, but with my own supplements and meals:
I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum. I track everything that goes into my body. Usually have a cheat day on Sunday but I don't go as crazy as I used to.

Doing that once or twice a day would be a non starter for me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did you actually read the article?
Yeah it's basically a version of OMAD from what I can tell or 18-6 depending on how you do it with Amino Acid pulses twice a day.

I've tried OMAD, 16-8, 20-4, the Warrior Diet, Eat-Stop-Eat, etc...

My favorite is the one I currently use which is a modified 5:2 fasting cycle with carb cycling, 40% protein and meticulous calorie tracking
 
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