BeTheChange
Master Don Juan
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Plate I've been seeing has flown out to Africa to work in some NGO project.
She declares her love for me and wants to be in anLTR.
I say no chance unless she can see me frequently (e.g. at least once a month)
She says there's no way she can get back before January. I reject her.
She comes back by saying I can see other people. I know this implies she too can see other people so I'm honest and say that's cool but that Id have significantly less motivation to see her again...because if she's screwing round then she's just another plate so why bother with all the other obligations of a relationship. She claims she isn't interested in anyone else but me. I laugh.
She complains that my need for sex isn't real. If she can hold out so can I. I'm not phased in the slightest. Eventually she relents and agrees to the only scenario id be content with as far as an LDR is concerned.
She stays celibate while I can unemotionally fvck other women until January.
Not naive enough to assume she'll necessarily stick to this but she's actually a well adjusted attractive woman so I must be doing something right.
She declares her love for me and wants to be in anLTR.
I say no chance unless she can see me frequently (e.g. at least once a month)
She says there's no way she can get back before January. I reject her.
She comes back by saying I can see other people. I know this implies she too can see other people so I'm honest and say that's cool but that Id have significantly less motivation to see her again...because if she's screwing round then she's just another plate so why bother with all the other obligations of a relationship. She claims she isn't interested in anyone else but me. I laugh.
She complains that my need for sex isn't real. If she can hold out so can I. I'm not phased in the slightest. Eventually she relents and agrees to the only scenario id be content with as far as an LDR is concerned.
She stays celibate while I can unemotionally fvck other women until January.
Not naive enough to assume she'll necessarily stick to this but she's actually a well adjusted attractive woman so I must be doing something right.
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