"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd like some feedback on my style...

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'll refrain from commenting on your attire as a whole but I will address your shoes. Lose the faux sneakers for some decent wingtips and get your pants hemmed correctly so there isn't too much bunching at the bottom.

Otherwise, not bad. Pic #4 gives off an air of fun so go with that.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
I'll refrain from commenting on your attire as a whole but I will address your shoes. Lose the faux sneakers for some decent wingtips and get your pants hemmed correctly so there isn't too much bunching at the bottom.

Otherwise, not bad. Pic #4 gives off an air of fun so go with that.
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Yeah, that's what I noticed, too.
 
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Pull your pants down a little.
Other than that u look good, esp. second 1 looks especially pimpin with the color coordination, belt, and shoes.
And i can tell ur testosterone levels are thru the roof so ur good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aren't you hot wearing all those cloths? I would overheat for sure, even in winter
 
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Mother****er 1st And 2nd One Handsdown *****! Style A Lil Bit Unique Though Willia :d !
 
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Dude your pimpin.

2&3 are my favs.

But it doesn't really matter what we think. It's what the ladies think ;)
 
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post some more pic's up myan lol ill compete witcha ill even compete with ya soon :p !
 
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what's with cutting off your head. If I cant see your face, I cant tell if your personality matches the clothes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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was gona say the same, prolly for some privacy reasons.. Dongfu im about 2 go to hawaii baby keep it clean for me would ya ?
 
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was gona say the same, prolly for some privacy reasons.. Dongfu im about 2 go to hawaii baby keep it clean for me would ya ?
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hit me up when you get here
 
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Well like another poster said, the pants seem kinda high

None of it is really my style. Maybe if I was wearing jeans instead of pants I'd feel more at home. But whatever, if you feel comfortable and sexy in what you wear than thats all the matters
 
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Buy some fitted normal clothes. You look like you sell cell phones at the mall. Your pants are so baggy that for all I know you could be smuggling a midget in them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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meitenesrigas said:
Buy some fitted normal clothes. You look like you sell cell phones at the mall. Your pants are so baggy that for all I know you could be smuggling a midget in them.
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No amateur stand up comedy in this thread please.

I also got "normal fitted clothes" if that's what you are crying over.
 
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honestly...I don't like it at all. Looks to me like a toned-down/wanna be of a pimp.


Specially the first outfit is horrible, makes you look like a dork.

That's just me of course.

EDIT: I live in florida, I guess this would be appropriate for colder environment?
 
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You look good man, I would just relax the pants around the waist.. looks like you got your belt cinched down. Let em ride down a little lower around your hips.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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