"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd like some feedback on my style...

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'll refrain from commenting on your attire as a whole but I will address your shoes. Lose the faux sneakers for some decent wingtips and get your pants hemmed correctly so there isn't too much bunching at the bottom.

Otherwise, not bad. Pic #4 gives off an air of fun so go with that.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
I'll refrain from commenting on your attire as a whole but I will address your shoes. Lose the faux sneakers for some decent wingtips and get your pants hemmed correctly so there isn't too much bunching at the bottom.

Otherwise, not bad. Pic #4 gives off an air of fun so go with that.
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Yeah, that's what I noticed, too.
 
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Pull your pants down a little.
Other than that u look good, esp. second 1 looks especially pimpin with the color coordination, belt, and shoes.
And i can tell ur testosterone levels are thru the roof so ur good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aren't you hot wearing all those cloths? I would overheat for sure, even in winter
 
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Mother****er 1st And 2nd One Handsdown *****! Style A Lil Bit Unique Though Willia :d !
 
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Dude your pimpin.

2&3 are my favs.

But it doesn't really matter what we think. It's what the ladies think ;)
 
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post some more pic's up myan lol ill compete witcha ill even compete with ya soon :p !
 
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what's with cutting off your head. If I cant see your face, I cant tell if your personality matches the clothes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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was gona say the same, prolly for some privacy reasons.. Dongfu im about 2 go to hawaii baby keep it clean for me would ya ?
 
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was gona say the same, prolly for some privacy reasons.. Dongfu im about 2 go to hawaii baby keep it clean for me would ya ?
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hit me up when you get here
 
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^lol

Well like another poster said, the pants seem kinda high

None of it is really my style. Maybe if I was wearing jeans instead of pants I'd feel more at home. But whatever, if you feel comfortable and sexy in what you wear than thats all the matters
 
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Buy some fitted normal clothes. You look like you sell cell phones at the mall. Your pants are so baggy that for all I know you could be smuggling a midget in them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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meitenesrigas said:
Buy some fitted normal clothes. You look like you sell cell phones at the mall. Your pants are so baggy that for all I know you could be smuggling a midget in them.
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No amateur stand up comedy in this thread please.

I also got "normal fitted clothes" if that's what you are crying over.
 
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honestly...I don't like it at all. Looks to me like a toned-down/wanna be of a pimp.


Specially the first outfit is horrible, makes you look like a dork.

That's just me of course.

EDIT: I live in florida, I guess this would be appropriate for colder environment?
 
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You look good man, I would just relax the pants around the waist.. looks like you got your belt cinched down. Let em ride down a little lower around your hips.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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