"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd like some feedback on my style...

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'll refrain from commenting on your attire as a whole but I will address your shoes. Lose the faux sneakers for some decent wingtips and get your pants hemmed correctly so there isn't too much bunching at the bottom.

Otherwise, not bad. Pic #4 gives off an air of fun so go with that.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
I'll refrain from commenting on your attire as a whole but I will address your shoes. Lose the faux sneakers for some decent wingtips and get your pants hemmed correctly so there isn't too much bunching at the bottom.

Otherwise, not bad. Pic #4 gives off an air of fun so go with that.
Yeah, that's what I noticed, too.
 

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Pull your pants down a little.
Other than that u look good, esp. second 1 looks especially pimpin with the color coordination, belt, and shoes.
And i can tell ur testosterone levels are thru the roof so ur good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aren't you hot wearing all those cloths? I would overheat for sure, even in winter
 

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Mother****er 1st And 2nd One Handsdown *****! Style A Lil Bit Unique Though Willia :d !
 

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Dude your pimpin.

2&3 are my favs.

But it doesn't really matter what we think. It's what the ladies think ;)
 

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post some more pic's up myan lol ill compete witcha ill even compete with ya soon :p !
 

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what's with cutting off your head. If I cant see your face, I cant tell if your personality matches the clothes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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was gona say the same, prolly for some privacy reasons.. Dongfu im about 2 go to hawaii baby keep it clean for me would ya ?
 

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mongolboy said:
was gona say the same, prolly for some privacy reasons.. Dongfu im about 2 go to hawaii baby keep it clean for me would ya ?
hit me up when you get here
 

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^lol

Well like another poster said, the pants seem kinda high

None of it is really my style. Maybe if I was wearing jeans instead of pants I'd feel more at home. But whatever, if you feel comfortable and sexy in what you wear than thats all the matters
 

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Buy some fitted normal clothes. You look like you sell cell phones at the mall. Your pants are so baggy that for all I know you could be smuggling a midget in them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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meitenesrigas said:
Buy some fitted normal clothes. You look like you sell cell phones at the mall. Your pants are so baggy that for all I know you could be smuggling a midget in them.
No amateur stand up comedy in this thread please.

I also got "normal fitted clothes" if that's what you are crying over.
 

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honestly...I don't like it at all. Looks to me like a toned-down/wanna be of a pimp.


Specially the first outfit is horrible, makes you look like a dork.

That's just me of course.

EDIT: I live in florida, I guess this would be appropriate for colder environment?
 

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You look good man, I would just relax the pants around the waist.. looks like you got your belt cinched down. Let em ride down a little lower around your hips.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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