"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Iceland girl
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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To be honest my friend, I have noticed that a few only follow the rules & not there head.The_Wolf said:
I must admit, I have done this before.I have learned from my mistakes.:rock:
Theres just to many hot girl in this little town of England:rockon:
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say what? england is the world's pig farm. why on earth must every pathetic english dude leave on the weekend for the new baltic states?johncrawford said:To be honest my friend, I have noticed that a few only follow the rules & not there head.
I must admit, I have done this before.I have learned from my mistakes.:rock:
Theres just to many hot girl in this little town of England:rockon:
http://www.hs.fi/english/article/St...Old+Tallinn+bars+and+nightclubs/1076154680798
Todd says that the bars in Tallinn are much the same as in Norwich, but the atmosphere is better. "The locals are enormously friendly. Back in Norwich, things are more aggressive and people are more envious."
All of the lads sing the praises of the Tallinn girls. "They are very beautiful, slim and very fit-looking", they repeat over and over again.
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I'm from New zealand :nono:sparky0000 said:
Also I'm in a town called Bournemouth in the South of England'.
There's a lot of overseas students here,get my drift
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Isn't it interesting that you have been here for only that long and already a self-proclaimed judge of other people.johncrawford said:This is your point of view country boy
I was just filling in time on the bus
Take a chill pill please sir:box:
Man, you are either pathetic or just delusional when it comes to learning!
P.S.: I am staying away from this thread.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Full circle
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Some newbies tend to be "know it all" and yet come to these sites to either brag and/or to show immature expertise. To learn, one must have a non-judgemental open mind. Peace!!!!
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I have a lot to learn thenFull circle said:I could not have said better how correct you are, Tiger!
Some newbies tend to be "know it all" and yet come to these sites to either brag and/or to show immature expertise. To learn, one must have a non-judgemental open mind. Peace!!!!
Full circle
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I am glad to hear that. Be careful NOT to attack people who may know much more than you pretend to.johncrawford said:I have a lot to learn then
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She told me last night that she wanted to meet up between monday to Thursay.She does not like crowded places!
She also told me I was a good listener
I researched for 5 minutes about her country, and remembered all the information.
She was very pleased about my knowledge.
Also that I'm from a small country i.e New Zealand
Thought I was from the UK
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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F*** it I'll talk/MSN/text her she's going to the doctor's.johncrawford said:Oneday talk then oneday off etc.. is this o.k
I want to pretend that I care :box: