"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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To be honest my friend, I have noticed that a few only follow the rules & not there head.The_Wolf said:
I must admit, I have done this before.I have learned from my mistakes.:rock:
Theres just to many hot girl in this little town of England:rockon:
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say what? england is the world's pig farm. why on earth must every pathetic english dude leave on the weekend for the new baltic states?johncrawford said:To be honest my friend, I have noticed that a few only follow the rules & not there head.
I must admit, I have done this before.I have learned from my mistakes.:rock:
Theres just to many hot girl in this little town of England:rockon:
http://www.hs.fi/english/article/St...Old+Tallinn+bars+and+nightclubs/1076154680798
Todd says that the bars in Tallinn are much the same as in Norwich, but the atmosphere is better. "The locals are enormously friendly. Back in Norwich, things are more aggressive and people are more envious."
All of the lads sing the praises of the Tallinn girls. "They are very beautiful, slim and very fit-looking", they repeat over and over again.
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I'm from New zealand :nono:sparky0000 said:
Also I'm in a town called Bournemouth in the South of England'.
There's a lot of overseas students here,get my drift
Royal-tiger
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Isn't it interesting that you have been here for only that long and already a self-proclaimed judge of other people.johncrawford said:This is your point of view country boy
I was just filling in time on the bus
Take a chill pill please sir:box:
Man, you are either pathetic or just delusional when it comes to learning!
P.S.: I am staying away from this thread.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Full circle
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Some newbies tend to be "know it all" and yet come to these sites to either brag and/or to show immature expertise. To learn, one must have a non-judgemental open mind. Peace!!!!
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I have a lot to learn thenFull circle said:I could not have said better how correct you are, Tiger!
Some newbies tend to be "know it all" and yet come to these sites to either brag and/or to show immature expertise. To learn, one must have a non-judgemental open mind. Peace!!!!
Full circle
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I am glad to hear that. Be careful NOT to attack people who may know much more than you pretend to.johncrawford said:I have a lot to learn then
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She told me last night that she wanted to meet up between monday to Thursay.She does not like crowded places!
She also told me I was a good listener
I researched for 5 minutes about her country, and remembered all the information.
She was very pleased about my knowledge.
Also that I'm from a small country i.e New Zealand
Thought I was from the UK
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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F*** it I'll talk/MSN/text her she's going to the doctor's.johncrawford said:Oneday talk then oneday off etc.. is this o.k
I want to pretend that I care :box: