Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
To be honest my friend, I have noticed that a few only follow the rules & not there head.The_Wolf said:Not bad at all.
In all honesty, I prefer shy girls. Somewhat of more comfortable around them.
I don't get why the people here are so overwhelmed by you texting her "not by the rules"
say what? england is the world's pig farm. why on earth must every pathetic english dude leave on the weekend for the new baltic states?johncrawford said:To be honest my friend, I have noticed that a few only follow the rules & not there head.![]()
I must admit, I have done this before.I have learned from my mistakes.:rock:
Theres just to many hot girl in this little town of England:rockon:
I'm from New zealand :nono:sparky0000 said:say what? england is the world's pig farm. why on earth must every pathetic english dude leave on the weekend for the new baltic states?
http://www.hs.fi/english/article/St...Old+Tallinn+bars+and+nightclubs/1076154680798
Todd says that the bars in Tallinn are much the same as in Norwich, but the atmosphere is better. "The locals are enormously friendly. Back in Norwich, things are more aggressive and people are more envious."
All of the lads sing the praises of the Tallinn girls. "They are very beautiful, slim and very fit-looking", they repeat over and over again.
Isn't it interesting that you have been here for only that long and already a self-proclaimed judge of other people.johncrawford said:This is your point of view country boy
I was just filling in time on the bus![]()
Take a chill pill please sir:box:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have a lot to learn thenFull circle said:I could not have said better how correct you are, Tiger!
Some newbies tend to be "know it all" and yet come to these sites to either brag and/or to show immature expertise. To learn, one must have a non-judgemental open mind. Peace!!!!![]()
I am glad to hear that. Be careful NOT to attack people who may know much more than you pretend to.johncrawford said:I have a lot to learn then![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
F*** it I'll talk/MSN/text her she's going to the doctor's.johncrawford said:Oneday talk then oneday off etc.. is this o.k?